At my age my plumpness and I have become friends. I have taken off all my clothes and looked at myself critically and I think ==== what the heck! I have a great personality, I look young for my age, I am not ugly --- so who am I trying to impress? I actually like myself. Would I like to be thinner? Yes! But it is not worth (to me) all the calorie counting, gym workouts, denying myself something nice to eat and constantly on the scale.
At my age I am done with that. I choose clothing that is very becoming that hides my flaws and I go out with confidence. I am FREE!!! Like me or leave me.