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At my age my plumpness and I have become friends. I have taken off all my clothes and looked at myself critically and I think ==== what the heck! I have a great personality, I look young for my age, I am not ugly --- so who am I trying to impress? I actually like myself. Would I like to be thinner? Yes! But it is not worth (to me) all the calorie counting, gym workouts, denying myself something nice to eat and constantly on the scale. At my age I am done with that. I choose clothing that is very becoming that hides my flaws and I go out with confidence. I am FREE!!! Like me or leave me.

Jan-in-Maine So very sorry to read your news. I am sure this is shocking to you. Your attitude of not letting this spoil your bucket list is so positive and this is what you need at this time. Always think positive. Positive can help the healing. Ask all around you, children included to not give in to negative thoughts. Keep hope alive. You can win this. Just either go on the cruise or shelve it for awhile knowing you can take it later I am here in your cheering corner!