My wife and I have currently done 2 cruises with our daughter, and have two more planned for the upcoming months.
She first cruised in July 2021, just after turning 2, 7 days on the Allure. This was a perfect ship for such a young child, and being right when the restart was happening was awesome. The entire crew, and most of the passengers, knew her name by day 2, there was plenty for her to do, and the Babies and Tots Nursery program was available for her.
Next was 12 days on the Jewel doing a British Isles cruise. This was originally supposed to be a Baltic Cruise when she was an infant, which would have had its own set of pros and cons, but that cruise was delayed multiple times first due to Covid and then Putin. We were lucky enough to have Grandma and Grandpa with us which really helped. While this ship doesn’t have all the bells and whistles the larger ones do we still found plenty to do with her. She liked being able to be in the “real pool” since she is now diaper trained, but she had some major separation issues and didn’t want us to leave her at Adventure Ocean.
Our next two cruises will be 2 very different experiences. We are going on Rhapsody out of Barbados on an Island Hop cruise. 7 days, a different island every day, with 0 sea days. Yes this ship is very small compared to others with not a ton for young kids, but we won’t be spending a lot of time on the ship. When we are on board we will be in the pool and now that she goes to preschool at home she is more excited about Adventure Ocean. Grandma and Grandpa are not joining us for this one, but we are cautiously optimistic.
This summer we will bringing a bunch of friends on Oasis. Her other grandmother will be with us, and this entire trip is about having fun with all the kids.
So, what are my thoughts? If you can’t bring grandparents try to go on a larger ship with more for young ones to do, and a nursery program. Realize that you won’t be able to do everything you used to, but you and your partner should take turns doing a few fun activities while the other watches the kid. In terms of a room I suggest a balcony, so that after you put the kid into the pack and play you can go out on the balcony to relax with some wine.
It can still be a ton of fun, but you have to know what you are getting in to.