Thanks everybody. I knew there wasn't going to be some magic solution to my problem, I guess I was just looking for moral support. This cruise was to celebrate our 25th anniversary on Feb 12 and my wife's birthday on the 13th so we also have a group of 5 other couples to consider. I could deal with this one if it was just the 2 of us but all things considered, it's easier to rebook. There's one leaving Miami the week before on Escape with the same itinerary, so I think we'll book that one and just celebrate early. I was looking forward to sailing on the Mississippi but I guess that's a good reason to book another one.