OK Looks like I'm on my own on this one!!
I like tender ports as you get to see smaller places, but still be the benefits of a larger ship, and the arrival has more of a nautical effect. However all the cruise lines need to consider passenger welfare and make sure everyone is included and safe.
So I've suggested a number of times that that tender ports should be limited to 1 a week and only where shore side, large, good quality tenders are available.
Most of the above situations are totally unacceptable and, unfortunately, not uncommon. But are easily managed with a little more preparation and thought!!