I agree with you — you need to try another cruise line and hopefully you won’t fall again while tendering. Food is subjective and we look forward to spending 32 days in Aqua on Eclipse in SA. Good luck.
Yes, there are two sides to every story, but in this case I wouldn't want to hear the other side. If she thought they were rude and wanted to change tables she should do so and without snarky remarks from you.