Have been in a hand full of SS an CS over the years Cant remember ever asking the Butler for anything other than a couple of snacks I have no problem stopping off at a bar an getting water or diet cokes for the cabin I take my large cup in the early am with me for my walk an get my own coffee On our last cruise we saw the butler on day one than the last day looking for an extra tip The butler service for me is not the end of the world Enjoy your cruise an dont worry abot it