I cruise both - 6 on Carnival, 5 on Princess. I've noticed cuts with both cruise lines - especially food portions and entertainment. I will say that you will more than likely be surrounded by more "civilized" people on Princess, which sounds like one of your concerns. However, I was soooo bored on the Majestic Princess this past April, I was ready to jump overboard!!! Pluses and minuses as will all cruise lines.