sjn911 Posted July 13, 2010 #51 Share Posted July 13, 2010 As a single guy, I have NO regrets with purchasing a black suit which passes as quasi-tux. The ladies seem to like it that way. hint hint Yup!! However, after leaving MT and getting around more "suits"..had to realize it's more than that..in making the man. Great plan..the black suit!!!:)...Will not need it in Glacier..but this year..may think about SEVERAL layers..just not as warm this summer either:(. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terigo Posted July 13, 2010 #52 Share Posted July 13, 2010 I have the opposite problem. Hubby LOVES to dress. He owns several tuxes and wants to bring them for elegant nights. what is the problem? if he wears a tux, i have to wear some fancy formal dress so we sort of look like we go together. I like wearing nice black slacks with a dressy blouse... our pictures look much better if he is in a suit when i wear my pants outfits. My normal attire all day long at home is a t-shirt and shorts. it is hard enough to get used to closed-in dress shoes, let alone pantyhose and a bra! luckily, you are sailing Carnival.... anything short of jeans or shorts will be fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjn911 Posted July 13, 2010 #53 Share Posted July 13, 2010 I have the opposite problem. Hubby LOVES to dress. He owns several tuxes and wants to bring them for elegant nights. what is the problem? if he wears a tux, i have to wear some fancy formal dress so we sort of look like we go together. I like wearing nice black slacks with a dressy blouse... our pictures look much better if he is in a suit when i wear my pants outfits. My normal attire all day long at home is a t-shirt and shorts. it is hard enough to get used to closed-in dress shoes, let alone pantyhose and a bra! luckily, you are sailing Carnival.... anything short of jeans or shorts will be fine. :):) Have a dear friend..happy to say in touch with again...who has worked as a cruise travel agent since 1988 or so. Her business partner sadly passed in 2002 or so...they were just best friends and had an agency together over 10 years..and he was a guy..she a gal. He was just more finicky and it was so funny to hear about his luggage and tux woes. She always beat him in the what they were hauling department. Now..they did travel more upscale (it's Crystal in Europe this week:mad::D) as time went along..but she always found the easy packing dressy thngs..guys who wear suits several times on fancy cruises..well with all accessories in can be alot!! Anyway, good for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyher Posted July 13, 2010 #54 Share Posted July 13, 2010 I am not a suit and tie , tuxedo guy myself. But surely a nice pair of dress pants , and dress shirt and either a tie or a sportcoat (Doesn't have to be both) can't be all bad for a couple hours. To some of these posters Promiseing sex if he wears a suit and then NOT GIVING IT TO HIM ?????????? How to manipulate, negotiate ?????? What is this the episode where Lucy tries to get Ricky to buy her a new hat? To the Op.... Do Not Do these things ... You obviously love him and like the way he looks just as you found him. He must be a good guy with a good heart and makes you happy which is why you are still with him. I understand you want the pics and the nice night together , but its obviously something that isn't him. I am sure you wouldn't like him harping at you to do something that really wasn't you. Yes it would be nice if he dressed up for you . But even if he doesn't Isn't he still the guy you fell for? Like some one else said Pick your battles and just enjoy your cruise and eachother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrPete Posted July 13, 2010 #55 Share Posted July 13, 2010 How to manipulate, negotiate ?????? What is this the episode where Lucy tries to get Ricky to buy her a new hat? Even Lucy wanted to better Desi, so she married him, dressed him, and made him what he was. And loved him till the day he died. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyher Posted July 13, 2010 #56 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Even Lucy wanted to better Desi, so she married him, dressed him, and made him what he was. And loved him till the day he died. And he repaid her by having a long string of affairs with every showgirl, waitress, hat check and cigarette girl he could get his hands on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrPete Posted July 13, 2010 #57 Share Posted July 13, 2010 And he repaid her by having a long string of affairs with every showgirl, waitress, hat check and cigarette girl he could get his hands on. Yes, but he had a tie on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luddite Posted July 13, 2010 #58 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Yes, but he had a tie on. And he looked good doing it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peepaw Posted July 13, 2010 #59 Share Posted July 13, 2010 Hi, I am taking my BF on his first cruise, but I am having a hard time to convince to bring something nice for elegant night. I am only asking for sport jacket and slacks...maybe a tie would be nice. He is a very casual person. Then I wonder, how do you all fellow cruisers convince your dearly to wearing something nice for the elegant night. Maybe some tips from the guys too? Thanks Carol I would just as soon wear shorts or jeans and a t-shirt myself, but, My wife and I do not get a chance to dress and have pictures made very often (for her not me I know what we look like :p). I have worn a suit and tie which I found uncomfortable and worried about getting stuff all over it. The next cruise I carried a suit but wore a nice tropical shirt.(yes it was nice! it is black silk with dragons made with gold thread!) When we get to our table we take all of the oligatory pictures and I shed the jacket and enjoy the meal and company. After the meal we go out for dancing and drinks and watch the ocean go by. After that you will have to use your own imagination, Mama taught me not to kis and tell:rolleyes:. I did this the first time for her and ended up enjoying it myself and look forward to it. Just ask him sweetly and I'll bet he will come around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nothomeonacruise Posted July 13, 2010 #60 Share Posted July 13, 2010 My husband has learned to enjoy dressing more formally over the years. Also, the longer cruises will have people more formally dressed. I've seen everything from tuxes to sequins, to suits and Sunday dresses on elegant night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thoth Posted July 14, 2010 #61 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Yup!! However, after leaving MT and getting around more "suits"..had to realize it's more than that..in making the man. Great plan..the black suit!!!:)...Will not need it in Glacier..but this year..may think about SEVERAL layers..just not as warm this summer either:(. I know. While a suit may not make a man a gentleman, it sure can fool some people. My parents and I plan on taking layers to Montana. From my understanding high 65 low 40 is the norm for September. lower elevations that is. And no...I'm not planning to pack the black suit. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kmilanes Posted July 14, 2010 #62 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Nice dress shoes, shirt, pants, and tie and your golden. I wear suits all the time for work and never want to wear a suit when on vacation especially in 90 to 100 degree weather. So if you want him to wear a suit. My advice since your not married. Sex before the cruise and sex during the cruise. Never fails. I should know :D. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kmilanes Posted July 14, 2010 #63 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Oh and suggestion the walls are very thin and your cabin neighbors hear everything. They knew my name before introducing myself :eek:. Hahahahahahah. Ok back to being a censored individual. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tulman Posted July 14, 2010 #64 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Oh and suggestion the walls are very thin and your cabin neighbors hear everything. They knew my name before introducing myself :eek:. Hahahahahahah. Ok back to being a censored individual. One can never have too many ties;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TMWTim Posted July 14, 2010 #65 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Dress pants, shirt and shoes with a tie and you are good to go. Anything less then spend Elegant Night trying out the pizza. It is awesome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TahoeBob Posted July 14, 2010 #66 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Hi, I am taking my BF on his first cruise, but I am having a hard time to convince to bring something nice for elegant night. I am only asking for sport jacket and slacks...maybe a tie would be nice. He is a very casual person. Then I wonder, how do you all fellow cruisers convince your dearly to wearing something nice for the elegant night. Maybe some tips from the guys too? Thanks Carol as a guy who hates ties I can tell you this. Why is a tie and coat so important to you. You want him to wear something nice, it seems that you want nice on your terms. Don't worry about what he wears, concentrate on things that are really important that you can control, not things that are his choice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kmilanes Posted July 14, 2010 #67 Share Posted July 14, 2010 One can never have too many ties;) Agreed! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjn911 Posted July 14, 2010 #68 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Hi, I am taking my BF on his first cruise, but I am having a hard time to convince to bring something nice for elegant night. I am only asking for sport jacket and slacks...maybe a tie would be nice. He is a very casual person. Then I wonder, how do you all fellow cruisers convince your dearly to wearing something nice for the elegant night. Maybe some tips from the guys too? Thanks Carol A silky dressy casual shirt like Banana Republic makes might be to his liking....I think Op is just wanting to look nice with her man..sjn911. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AZ Karaoke Girl Posted July 14, 2010 #69 Share Posted July 14, 2010 I haven't read thru all the replys but I told my DH that I want to eat in the dining room and if I have to eat alone, I will. He either goes by the dress code or eats at the buffet alone. So far, we've always eaten together and he always looks nice to me. He even takes off his hat in the dining room and that is a miracle in itself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cnssu123 Posted July 14, 2010 Author #70 Share Posted July 14, 2010 To the Op.... Do Not Do these things ... You obviously love him and like the way he looks just as you found him. He must be a good guy with a good heart and makes you happy which is why you are still with him. Yes, I called it fate...this guy I started dating 6 months ago. He is the absolute opposite of what I was looking for, don't even match any requirement on my list! Yet for some reason, I have a feeling, he is the one! That's why I am not pushing it. But dosen't hurt to try. Yes, he has jacket, after all...he needs to wear that for other's wedding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cnssu123 Posted July 14, 2010 Author #71 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Oh and suggestion the walls are very thin and your cabin neighbors hear everything. We have a cove balc on the dream. I heard its more private..LOL j/k Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjn911 Posted July 14, 2010 #72 Share Posted July 14, 2010 I haven't read thru all the replys but I told my DH that I want to eat in the dining room and if I have to eat alone, I will. He either goes by the dress code or eats at the buffet alone. So far, we've always eaten together and he always looks nice to me. He even takes off his hat in the dining room and that is a miracle in itself. My grandmother would say dinner is over before you start if the hat was on..now..especiallly here in more casual restaurants those hats:rolleyes:...like hats off at dinner too..lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S.S.Oceanlover Posted July 14, 2010 #73 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Dress pants, shirt and shoes with a tie and you are good to go. Anything less then spend Elegant Night trying out the pizza. It is awesome. glad you're not in charge of the dress code. While that might be your minimum requirements it's not Carnivals. I'm just glad my wife diesn't want to get dressed up either. lol Never thought I'd hear her say that but she stated she's been getting dressed up every day for 33 years and she'd prefer not to if she didn't have to. After 20+ cruises we have no need for more formal pictures. Bill Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TMWTim Posted July 14, 2010 #74 Share Posted July 14, 2010 After 20+ cruises we have no need for more formal pictures. Bill With 20+ cruises I would think you would have learned the history behind 'Formal Night' and how much it has changed from back in the days where you would dress to the T every night in a dining room ;) I am not a fan of those corny picture booths they have all over the ship. Now to the OP's question and it being her BF first cruise. I would rather her BF go ahead and at least bring dress shoes/shirt/pants w/a tie in case they are seated with a group of old schoolers that are dressed to the 'T'...just in case. On our second cruise we were seated with a lot of people that were dressed up..no tux but everyone in a suit and tie. There was a couple on their first cruise at our table who didn't dress up at all...dressy shorts and a Hawaiian shirt for the guy and jeans and nice top for the lady. I could tell they were miserable from the time they sat down. Everyone at the table could see it after they made a friendly comment about the dress code. My wife and I got to know them and hung at at the casino with them several times and it was apparent that they heard how relaxed the 'Elegant' night was from a internet website. Personally I don't care what you wear. At the same time, I don't think they will ever dress down on a 'Elegant' night again....if they in fact decide to cruise again. I have been on many cruises and it is sad that Carnival is the only place where you will read how it is the norm to dress how you want on a 'Elegant' night. That kind of info isn't helping the first time cruises at all. Play it safe first timers....expect everyone at your table to be dressed up and expect a tux or two as well. Now, dress how you want. I hope the OP and her BF dress up and rock out in the dining room! They will be glad they did. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
natesmom14 Posted July 14, 2010 #75 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Of our crew, my 6 year old daughter is the only one who WANTS to dress up- LOL! However, I do have appropriate attire for Elegant night- as does my husband. He didn't want to pack it and was all set to do Lido deck dinner on Elegant night- but then I told him that was the only time he'll get Lobster and he can get as much as he wants! I am a first time cruiser and don't know if in fact that is the only time you can get Lobster- but it sold him on packing some nice clothes! :D As for the thin walls in the cabins- thanks for the warning!!!! We will be surrounded by my brother's family- wife and 4 boys... We'll have to be careful! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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