navybankerteacher Posted March 16, 2022 #76 Share Posted March 16, 2022 4 hours ago, morpheusofthesea said: This is may or may not tie in with inconsiderate chair hogs as well: Not required BUT "Why you should always dress when you go out to eat. Yes, it still matters. By Sam Dangremond, Town & Country. John Winterman, who used to work for Daniel Boulud as maître d' at Daniel, and for Charlie Trotter before that, and asked if he thinks dressing up for dinner still matters." "Absolutely," said Winterman, who's now managing partner at Batârd in New York City. "I break it down into self-respect and respect for others." Would someone's appearance affect the table they were assigned at, say, Daniel? "On the record, yes," he said. "If someone comes in making an effort and looking fabulous and glamorous and they know they're in for a premium experience at a premium price, you give them a fabulous table in the middle of the room. And people react to that, when they see a crowd that's well-dressed and beautiful and sparkling." It is generally accepted in a number of contexts that what people wear influences their mind-set and conduct—- many corporations have dress codes, as have many private schools (and public schools in some places), as (obviously) have military organizations, and private clubs, even the US Supreme Court has a dress code . If an organization wishes to encourage an atmosphere of courtesy and civility, adopting a dress code is a primary step: the old concept of “you are what you eat” is widely accepted —- and many organizations realize that it is also true that, at least to an extent, “you behave the way you look”. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ldubs Posted March 19, 2022 #77 Share Posted March 19, 2022 On 3/14/2022 at 8:48 PM, lissie said: I don't get it either. I'm light skinned and have a family history of melanoma - if the pool doesn't have shade I swim in a long sleeved rash vest and board shorts. I love the pool and will swim at 2x a day in warm weather on a sea day - but I don't need a lounger - if there is no one handy I'll just drop my gear in corner on the deck. I never sit near the pool as it rarely has shade. On our one cruise (pre Covid - full ship) - there was NEVER a problem getting multiple loungers next to the pools. The ship was probably 80% plus Australians so - maybe that's the trick - go on a cruise in Australia or NZ where we are somewhat more aware of the risks of sunbathing I have the same issue and exposure. Sitting out in the sun on purpose is not my cup of tea. The "invention" of UPF hats/clothing is wonderful. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ldubs Posted March 19, 2022 #78 Share Posted March 19, 2022 On 3/16/2022 at 5:58 AM, navybankerteacher said: No - they said “…forced to dress formally for no reason at all.” No mention of every night - just flat objection to formal dress . They were responding to a comment -- Context. But no worries, I understand you want dress codes and that is fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ldubs Posted March 19, 2022 #79 Share Posted March 19, 2022 On 3/16/2022 at 7:39 AM, morpheusofthesea said: This is may or may not tie in with inconsiderate chair hogs as well: Not required BUT "Why you should always dress when you go out to eat. Yes, it still matters. By Sam Dangremond, Town & Country. John Winterman, who used to work for Daniel Boulud as maître d' at Daniel, and for Charlie Trotter before that, and asked if he thinks dressing up for dinner still matters." "Absolutely," said Winterman, who's now managing partner at Batârd in New York City. "I break it down into self-respect and respect for others." Would someone's appearance affect the table they were assigned at, say, Daniel? "On the record, yes," he said. "If someone comes in making an effort and looking fabulous and glamorous and they know they're in for a premium experience at a premium price, you give them a fabulous table in the middle of the room. And people react to that, when they see a crowd that's well-dressed and beautiful and sparkling." I'm not sure I would enjoy a place so focused on appearances. Seems kind of shallow in some ways. But then I don't think I will ever be accused of dressing to be "fabulous and glamorous". 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Napagirl Posted March 20, 2022 #80 Share Posted March 20, 2022 On 3/11/2022 at 6:04 PM, donaldsc said: I handle the people who get up early to claim a chair for the rest of the day by just moving their stuff to another location on the ship - sometimes far away from where they have left it. If they come several hours later to claim their lounger, I just play dumb and say that I didn't see anything there when I got there and suggest that someone or maybe a crew member must have taken their stuff. I also suggest that they might want to check in lost and found or with the pool attendant. Works every time. DON I only had to do this once but I wouldn't hesitate to do it again if needed. We moved their stuff (though not really far away) and we relaxed for about an hour and a half. NO ONE came during that time. I was all ready to play dumb. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Longboysfan Posted March 21, 2022 #81 Share Posted March 21, 2022 The less than 1% ruin it for the others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ldubs Posted March 22, 2022 #82 Share Posted March 22, 2022 10 hours ago, Longboysfan said: The less than 1% ruin it for the others. That frequently is the case in life. As far as chair hogs. Move the pool to another deck. That will fool them! 😀 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lenquixote66 Posted March 22, 2022 #83 Share Posted March 22, 2022 17 hours ago, ldubs said: That frequently is the case in life. As far as chair hogs. Move the pool to another deck. That will fool them! 😀 The pool should be on the same deck as the buffet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ldubs Posted March 22, 2022 #84 Share Posted March 22, 2022 46 minutes ago, lenquixote66 said: The pool should be on the same deck as the buffet The we would have to move the buffet too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navybankerteacher Posted March 22, 2022 #85 Share Posted March 22, 2022 27 minutes ago, ldubs said: The we would have to move the buffet too! That would certainly improve that deck - but where the hell would you put them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lenquixote66 Posted March 22, 2022 #86 Share Posted March 22, 2022 29 minutes ago, ldubs said: The we would have to move the buffet too! Not necessarily.There could be a pool buffet combo.Me ,for instance has never been in a pool on a ship.The last time I was in a pool was 1952. The only time I am in the buffet on a ship is occasionally in the afternoon for oatmeal raisin cookies and ice cream. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare whogo Posted March 22, 2022 #87 Share Posted March 22, 2022 This recent Seabourn review mentions a report of chair hogs on Seabourn. https://boards.cruisecritic.com/topic/2838882-review-seabourn-encore-canaries-wedding-anniversary-cruise-🍾🥂🍸🕺🏽💃/#comment-62869235 Luxury lines are not immune to the problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navybankerteacher Posted March 22, 2022 #88 Share Posted March 22, 2022 53 minutes ago, lenquixote66 said: Not necessarily.There could be a pool buffet combo.Me ,for instance has never been in a pool on a ship.The last time I was in a pool was 1952. The only time I am in the buffet on a ship is occasionally in the afternoon for oatmeal raisin cookies and ice cream. What? Never for chocolate chip cookies? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navybankerteacher Posted March 22, 2022 #89 Share Posted March 22, 2022 55 minutes ago, lenquixote66 said: .. The last time I was in a pool was 1952. … Interesting: I think the first time I was in a pool was in 1952. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lenquixote66 Posted March 22, 2022 #90 Share Posted March 22, 2022 1 hour ago, navybankerteacher said: What? Never for chocolate chip cookies? I cannot eat chocolate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lenquixote66 Posted March 22, 2022 #91 Share Posted March 22, 2022 1 hour ago, navybankerteacher said: Interesting: I think the first time I was in a pool was in 1952. Perhaps the same pool ? For me it was in Parksville,NY. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navybankerteacher Posted March 23, 2022 #92 Share Posted March 23, 2022 1 hour ago, lenquixote66 said: Perhaps the same pool ? For me it was in Parksville,NY. 1 hour ago, lenquixote66 said: Perhaps the same pool ? For me it was in Parksville,NY. No - mine was in Rye, NY. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ldubs Posted March 23, 2022 #93 Share Posted March 23, 2022 4 hours ago, lenquixote66 said: Not necessarily.There could be a pool buffet combo.Me ,for instance has never been in a pool on a ship.The last time I was in a pool was 1952. The only time I am in the buffet on a ship is occasionally in the afternoon for oatmeal raisin cookies and ice cream. "oatmeal raisin cookies" If I was forced to name just one, that would be my favorite. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ldubs Posted March 23, 2022 #94 Share Posted March 23, 2022 4 hours ago, navybankerteacher said: That would certainly improve that deck - but where the hell would you put them? Tow it. Like a big barge. Then when the chair hogs come, but the cables. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lenquixote66 Posted March 23, 2022 #95 Share Posted March 23, 2022 14 hours ago, navybankerteacher said: No - mine was in Rye, NY. My first time in a pool was in Rye,NY .It was in 1951. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lenquixote66 Posted March 23, 2022 #96 Share Posted March 23, 2022 13 hours ago, ldubs said: "oatmeal raisin cookies" If I was forced to name just one, that would be my favorite. Great minds think alike Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navybankerteacher Posted March 23, 2022 #97 Share Posted March 23, 2022 17 hours ago, ldubs said: "oatmeal raisin cookies" If I was forced to name just one, that would be my favorite. Ever try soft ginger molasses cookies ? HAL used to have them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navybankerteacher Posted March 23, 2022 #98 Share Posted March 23, 2022 17 hours ago, ldubs said: Tow it. Like a big barge. Then when the chair hogs come, but the cables. Now that’s the kind of thinking we need. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lenquixote66 Posted March 24, 2022 #99 Share Posted March 24, 2022 On 3/22/2022 at 9:26 PM, navybankerteacher said: No - mine was in Rye, NY. Could you be referring to Rye Beach,Playland ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navybankerteacher Posted March 24, 2022 #100 Share Posted March 24, 2022 31 minutes ago, lenquixote66 said: Could you be referring to Rye Beach,Playland ? No - it was at a country club on the Boston Post Road. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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