Bluewake Posted December 5, 2023 #1 Share Posted December 5, 2023 At the risk of sounding petty... We just returned from a short Celebrity cruise that was wonderful in most ways other than one exception. In four days, we encountered 6-7 situations in which we found a quiet place to relax but, within a few minutes, someone a few chairs away was on their cell phone engaging in one or more of three behaviors: (1) talking very loudly...really loudly; (2) using the speaker on the cell phone to hear the other party...many such exchanges seemed to involved "facetiming"; (3) watching videos on their phone with the speaker at max setting. These were not emergencies in any way. I know that because the entire conversation from both parties was clearly audible to everyone within a 10-20 foot radius. And, at no time, did the party on the ship seem to be concerned that they might be bothering anyone. It's hard to believe we are the only cruisers who find this somewhat disturbing but I have to acknowledge the possibility that others simply aren't bothered by it. If so, it's my problem. However, it got me thinking. If cruise lines can have smoking and non-smoking areas, why not have certain areas where cell phone conversations are not permitted and videos/music can only be watched with earphones? Of course, nobody cares if someone is texting...it's the noise polution that is the issue for some of us. So...am I being a curmudgeon and unreasonable? 31 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare 1025cruise Posted December 5, 2023 #2 Share Posted December 5, 2023 I'll join you on the curmudgeon bench. 15 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare prmssk Posted December 5, 2023 #3 Share Posted December 5, 2023 I don't disagree with you. In my opinion, headphones should be required in all public spaces (not just designated areas) and calls should be kept to a minimum, especially if someone is going to talk louder than they would with someone sitting right in front of them. 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paulh84 Posted December 5, 2023 #4 Share Posted December 5, 2023 It’s a proven fact people lose all self-awareness while on a cruise ship. Phone volume, walking directly into another’s paths, lines, stampeding the elevator, DUI on scooters to name a few. I am petty and will match the volume of the offender who is FaceTiming or watching videos until they get the hint. 8 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ymncruise Posted December 5, 2023 #5 Share Posted December 5, 2023 No way! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare PTC DAWG Posted December 5, 2023 #6 Share Posted December 5, 2023 Yes, limit talking on your phone to your cabin…music to headphones..otherwise, phone goes overboard, no warnings. I’m not even in favor of having internet available except in the I lounge. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Lena11033 Posted December 5, 2023 #7 Share Posted December 5, 2023 (edited) Nope - my husband stays home so it's how I stay in contact with him I do facetime him mostly from my room I did a couple of times on Beyond in public areas (to show him the ship) BUT not when busy and I had headphones on. I think it comes down to common sense, which unfortunately is lacking so it won't make a difference if you banned phones Edited December 5, 2023 by Lena11033 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare PTC DAWG Posted December 5, 2023 #8 Share Posted December 5, 2023 4 minutes ago, paulh84 said: It’s a proven fact people lose all self-awareness while on a cruise ship. Phone volume, walking directly into another’s paths, lines, stampeding the elevator, DUI on scooters to name a few. I am petty and will match the volume of the offender who is FaceTiming or watching videos until they get the hint. I’ve been known to join in the conversations of any loudmouths on the phone near me… 2 1 23 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare PTC DAWG Posted December 5, 2023 #9 Share Posted December 5, 2023 1 minute ago, Lena11033 said: Nope - my husband stays home so it's how I stay in contact with him I do facetime him mostly from my room I did a couple of times on Beyond in public areas (to show him the ship) BUT not when busy and I had headphones on. Nobody is suggesting you can’t stay in touch with your Husband. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare PTC DAWG Posted December 5, 2023 #10 Share Posted December 5, 2023 6 minutes ago, paulh84 said: It’s a proven fact people lose all self-awareness while on a cruise ship. Phone volume, walking directly into another’s paths, lines, stampeding the elevator, DUI on scooters to name a few. I am petty and will match the volume of the offender who is FaceTiming or watching videos until they get the hint. More than once on cruises and elsewhere for that matter, I have had clowns on phones walk right into me standing still. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Lena11033 Posted December 5, 2023 #11 Share Posted December 5, 2023 Just now, PTC DAWG said: Nobody is suggesting you can’t stay in touch with your Husband. I've seen plenty of people on here complain about people taking phones on the ship in general. I'm just stating I'm opposed to banning phones from certain areas because then he can't reach me in an emergency. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare prmssk Posted December 5, 2023 #12 Share Posted December 5, 2023 1 minute ago, Lena11033 said: I've seen plenty of people on here complain about people taking phones on the ship in general. I'm just stating I'm opposed to banning phones from certain areas because then he can't reach me in an emergency. I read the initial post about banning the noise from cell phones not that the OP was trying to ban you from carrying your phone so that you could step away from people for a call. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare PTC DAWG Posted December 5, 2023 #13 Share Posted December 5, 2023 Just now, Lena11033 said: I've seen plenty of people on here complain about people taking phones on the ship in general. I'm just stating I'm opposed to banning phones from certain areas because then he can't reach me in an emergency. She suggested having areas where folks weren’t talking on their phone or playing loud music.. That said, when you’re at sea, what can you really do? How did people manage back in the day? 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Travelling2Some Posted December 5, 2023 #14 Share Posted December 5, 2023 Totally agree with the OP. Seems like all you have to do is find someplace quiet to read and, invariably, some loudmouth or noisy group will sit down next to you. I would love to see a designated "Quiet Area" like they do for smokers. 13 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Tyler414 Posted December 5, 2023 #15 Share Posted December 5, 2023 NO 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare CruisinShips Posted December 5, 2023 #16 Share Posted December 5, 2023 Why do we expect people to be less rude on cruise ships than they are on land? What the OP described is unfortunately no different than what we see on a daily basis in a coffee shop, in a mall, in airports...wherever. We can't change the behavior of rude people...more rules likely won't work anyway. 9 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare PTC DAWG Posted December 5, 2023 #17 Share Posted December 5, 2023 (edited) I think reading comprehension is fundamental here..OP didn’t suggest no phones. I guess some of y’all are the louder folks OP was talking about. Edited December 5, 2023 by PTC DAWG 6 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare PTC DAWG Posted December 5, 2023 #18 Share Posted December 5, 2023 Just now, CruisinShips said: Why do we expect people to be less rude on cruise ships than they are on land? What the OP described is unfortunately no different than what we see on a daily basis in a coffee shop, in a mall, in airports...wherever. We can't change the behavior of rude people...more rules likely won't work anyway. Here is the issue in a nutshell. ^^^ 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare prmssk Posted December 5, 2023 #19 Share Posted December 5, 2023 Just now, CruisinShips said: Why do we expect people to be less rude on cruise ships than they are on land? What the OP described is unfortunately no different than what we see on a daily basis in a coffee shop, in a mall, in airports...wherever. We can't change the behavior of rude people...more rules likely won't work anyway. Unfortunately, this is true. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare lv2cruisgrl Posted December 5, 2023 #20 Share Posted December 5, 2023 Unfortunately the human race has lost most respect for others as well as manners. With cell phones came the worst rudeness ever! I doubt cell free areas would ever be implemented. Hopefully your post will remind a few that read it to be mindful! 8 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeaBag Posted December 5, 2023 #21 Share Posted December 5, 2023 1 minute ago, lv2cruisgrl said: Unfortunately the human race has lost most respect for others as well as manners. With cell phones came the worst rudeness ever! I doubt cell free areas would ever be implemented. Hopefully your post will remind a few that read it to be mindful! You just beat me with your post! People become so engrossed in their cell phones, they are oblivious to anything that is going on around them. I have been walked into, as well, on the sidewalk, at the grocery store etc. On a cruise ship, if someone was talking loudly, I would ask them to please turn down the volume!!! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doghog Posted December 5, 2023 #22 Share Posted December 5, 2023 (edited) Next cruise I may bring a set of my drum sticks. Next time someone is near me or on their balcony talking loud on their cell phone, especially on speaker (🤬) I 'll start drumming out In A Gadda Da Vida on any hard surface around them. Edited December 5, 2023 by doghog 3 2 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upwarduk Posted December 5, 2023 #23 Share Posted December 5, 2023 55 minutes ago, paulh84 said: It’s a proven fact people lose all self-awareness while on a cruise ship. Phone volume, walking directly into another’s paths, lines, stampeding the elevator, DUI on scooters to name a few. I am petty and will match the volume of the offender who is FaceTiming or watching videos until they get the hint. The trouble is the cruise ships have transferred into the technology age and QR codes are displayed in the daily newspaper and the ship requires you to fill in your departure information via your phone. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Team Stag Posted December 5, 2023 #24 Share Posted December 5, 2023 I am in support of this. What can we do regarding the bluetooth speakers that people like to blast as well? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare PTC DAWG Posted December 5, 2023 #25 Share Posted December 5, 2023 5 minutes ago, upwarduk said: The trouble is the cruise ships have transferred into the technology age and QR codes are displayed in the daily newspaper and the ship requires you to fill in your departure information via your phone. Again, no one suggested a ban on phones. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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