Unpopular opinions:
Sea days are my least favorite, and as such, I choose port intensive itineraries.
I love walking the ship and outside decks early in the morning before it gets crowded.
I dislike hanging out by the cramped and crowded pool decks during the day. Chairs hogs do not bother me.
I turned down the Free at Sea drink package! 1) keeps us from drinking too much just to get our money's worth, and 2) I don't think my husband and I would drink 28+ drinks on a 7 day cruise to equal the price of the gratuity.
I always wonder if the Haven guests really have that much better time than us bargain hunters.
NCL cruising appears to be the furthest from "freestyle". I always end up over planning, making reservations before cruise, during cruise, stressing because reservations are not available, and during the cruise always checking my watch to make sure we are not late for reservations. Perhaps, that's just a reflection of mega-ship sailing logistics.
And sailing a family of four in a single cabin is not so bad. We've done it 14 times. I call it family bonding and learning life skills of compromise and being considerate. 🙂 The kids think it is better than being left back at home.