The only perk I would like to extend to the other members of my party are tender tickets for our 1 tender port. Really, the rest of it, I don't care and don't even really need for myself. Embarkation is not an issue - I don't care when they get on as opposed to when we do. Debarkation - we're flying on Norwegian's flights, so hopefully they see the need to get us all off quickly, least we miss our flights (I've heard NCL won't help you out in this case - but then I'm so NOT a nice person when I feel I've been wronged). The two without a flight, live in the destination port, so no problems there. I'm perfectly fine to pay for breakfast room service. I do not want anything we haven't paid for, that's not fair to others and could ruin future perks and would even be willing to pay for the extra tender tickets, but I know that's not how it works.
Here's my plan and I'll report after the cruise if it works. We are celebrating 3 of the cruisers birthday's. My 2 children were born on the same day 3 years apart and my son's wife was born 3 days prior to their birthday. Hence, the reason I'm paying for the whole trip - birthday presents. I plan to write a quippy little poem and politely ask if I can have extra tender tickets, but being clear that I do not expect it if they are unable to accommodate the extras. I plan to hand the cute poem with Envelope 1 of 2 on embarkation day to each the butler and the concierge. Perhaps knowing they will be well compensated with an additional envelope at debarkation for anything they decide to give us extra will help....maybe - maybe not. Can't hurt to ask and I don't mind tipping - we always tip well anyway.