Thanks for your timely reply and the information. We have already asked for permission but it will be a week tomorrow and we have heard nothing. Meanwhile, we had already booked the St.Regis in an over the water villa. UGH! It's the whole tender as opposed to docking that is the problem. We didn't know it was a tender port. I will get in touch again tomorrow.
What's the expression? " Hope for the best but expect the worst." We have a lovely cruise planned and if we don't get this "little"-ok really big extra that we planned for ourselves, then that would be a shame- but not the worst thing in the world. I was pleased to hear how much you and your wife enjoyed it ,so here's hoping!