voyager of the seas with 3yr and 10mth old

[rshippo]

We are going on the voyager of the seas western caribbean 7night with our 3yr and 10mth old in March. This will be our first cruise and of course I have all sorts of questions any help would be appreciated.

-Strollers is it worth buying a reclining umbrella stroller or use our large graco one. Am concerened about space in cabin.

-Dining in main room how many nights is it formal dont see any point in getting dressed up with the kids

-trips out in port and activities really recommended. I really just want to take the boys to the beach and let them play with there diggars best suggestions do you take orgainised trip or just get a cab to beach if so which beaches do you go to. Also is it hard to get off at grand cayman with the tendering I read about

- if we stay on board is the boat still open for business or does everything shut down.

-Take the inflatable pool or not unfortunately still working on the potty training (long story) so they will both be in swim diapers so no pool.

- kids club says only potty trained so i guess the 3yr old cant go even though he is pee trained is there any wriggled room on this policy. I am fine if there isn't.

- Ice skating ring do they do little kids sizes he is a 11 size

- Boarding in New Orleans any thing I should know

I am looking at this trip as a break to spend with hubby the boys and my parents I have very little expectations, just hoping for a relaxing time where I can keep my lively 3 yr old entertained and still try and relax. Would love to take them to the beach to play, but wasn't planning on taking car seat.

we have a JSuite with a balcony so i figured I could read on the balcony during nap times.

Any help would be great Thank you