cooncat_mom Posted May 19, 2012 #176 Share Posted May 19, 2012 (edited) I'm afraid I don't enjoy dressing up either...Can't wear heels anymore and look ever so much better in pants :o However, I prefer the MDR to the buffet and understand how some folks feel, so I put on a long black dress and some bling! For the other nights, I wear office or church clothes to dinner. Edited May 19, 2012 by cooncat_mom I went to school - why can't I spell?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ccruisequeen Posted May 19, 2012 #177 Share Posted May 19, 2012 I'm afraid I don't enjoy dressing up either...Can't wear heels anymore and look ever so much better in pants :o However, I prefer the MDR to the buffet and understand how some folks feel, so I put on a long black dress and some bling! For the other nights, I wear office or church clothes to dinner. Wear your black slacks & a sparkly top- works for me! No need for a dress, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrmende63 Posted May 19, 2012 #178 Share Posted May 19, 2012 We love the elegant nights. We dress up for dinner every night that we are on the ship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mitsguy2001 Posted May 20, 2012 #179 Share Posted May 20, 2012 OK, I just have to give my 2 cents here. While more women than men may prefer to dress up, you shouldn't assume that NO men like to. My husband actually DOES like to put his tux on and go to dinner. Again, a woman saying that her husband likes to dress up for formal night is very different from a man actually saying that he likes it. He does not have to dress for work since we're in FL and almost no one does. BTW, I take exception to the idea that women's elegant clothes are somehow more comfortable and that's why we enjoy dressing for dinner. PUH-LEASE. Strap the twins in with an underwire, shimmy into some pantyhose, and add high heels (not to mention the jewelry and accessories) and I defy you to tell me that we are somehow more comfortable than wearing a tie in the dining room :rolleyes: I wasn't saying that women's formal clothes are inherently more comfortable than men's formal clothes. What I was saying is that women have more choices when it comes to formal clothes, and have the freedom to dress based on the weather, while men do not. Secondly, none of the items that you mentioned for women are ever REQUIRED by a dress code, yet men are very frequently required to wear a tie and a jacket and a long sleeved shirt, no matter how hot it is. And many activities, workplaces, and venues that have very strict dress codes for men have basically no dress code at all for women. On the other hand, there is a water park near where I live that actually enforces their dress code for women (their "dress code" for both genders is that you must be wearing a swimsuit; seems reasonable enough to me), yet women constantly whine about the fact that they have to follow a dress code to use that water park. Thirdly, to be honest, I find that women are very hypocritical when it comes to dress. My wife (and presumably many other women) refuses to wear anything "revealing" unless it is hot outside. Yet she (and presumably many other women) expects me to wear a jacket and a tie no matter how hot it is outside. Fourthly, as I said, research shows that men who wear a tie to work every day are more likely to die young from heart attacks than men who have jobs with more casual dress codes; I have never heard of any research showing that "uncomfortable" women's attire shortens their life at all. While I do think that part of it could be correlation without causation (jobs with stricter dress codes are probably also more stressful for other reasons), I am certain that wearing clothes that are inappropriate for the weather (which men are forced to do) must have some health risks. I don't have a problem so much with wearing formal attire to dinner. The dining rooms are air conditioned, and eating doesn't involve a lot of movement that would make you overly hot. My problem is being expected to wear it the entire night, including at events that are outdoors and/or involve a lot of movement, such as dancing. It's especially frustrating listening to my wife mention how nice the air feels on her skin, while I feel like I'm going to suffocate. I realize that wearing a suit is not officially required for men on Carnival. But my wife makes it clear that seeing me in a suit is one of the main things she enjoys on a cruise (I still can't understand why), so for me, it may as well be required. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taylorsays Posted May 20, 2012 #180 Share Posted May 20, 2012 I enjoy elegant night, it's nice to see everyone cleaned up. I usually wear a cocktail dress while my fiance wears just a suit & tie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momtoabowhead Posted May 20, 2012 #181 Share Posted May 20, 2012 I enjoy it, DH tolerates it. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Disneycruisers Posted May 20, 2012 #182 Share Posted May 20, 2012 I realize that wearing a suit is not officially required for men on Carnival. But my wife makes it clear that seeing me in a suit is one of the main things she enjoys on a cruise (I still can't understand why), so for me, it may as well be required. Maybe us women can't understand why either. There's just something about seeing a husband in a suit. My DH and I have been married 23 years, and, STILL, when I see him in a suit (or tux,) I just think (and say) "You handsome devil you." Maybe it's the way the jacket fits, or who knows? Honestly, I didn't realize how hot and uncomfortable it makes a lot of men feel (until I read your post.) My husband is always eager to rush back to the room and change after dinner, and that's fine. I stay in my dress (even though I do change into flatter shoes.) So, to all you husbands who dress up for your wives on elegant night, thank you!:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Woodawg Posted May 20, 2012 #183 Share Posted May 20, 2012 i totally enjoy it.:p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terpboy Posted May 20, 2012 #184 Share Posted May 20, 2012 Honestly, I think that casual wear is alittle overdressed...Im on vacation, I dont wanna have to change out of my t-shirt and bball shorts for dinner with the fam....im ok with one elegant night, but I'd like to have "Cruise Casual" be a little more casual. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mitsguy2001 Posted May 20, 2012 #185 Share Posted May 20, 2012 Maybe us women can't understand why either. There's just something about seeing a husband in a suit. My DH and I have been married 23 years, and, STILL, when I see him in a suit (or tux,) I just think (and say) "You handsome devil you." Maybe it's the way the jacket fits, or who knows? Honestly, I didn't realize how hot and uncomfortable it makes a lot of men feel (until I read your post.) My husband is always eager to rush back to the room and change after dinner, and that's fine. I stay in my dress (even though I do change into flatter shoes.) So, to all you husbands who dress up for your wives on elegant night, thank you!:) Well, from my post, you now know why your husband is so eager to rush back to the room to change after dinner. What I almost wish that Carnival would do is, even if they wanted to make the dress code stricter for dinner (requiring a jacket and tie for men), it would be nice for them to explicitky state that the dress code is not in effect after dinner, so that us husbands can point that out to our wife, so we don't have to sweat to death while tryint to enjoy whatever nighttime activiteis we want to do that night. I admit that I'm probably more sensitive to temperature than most others, for some reason, both hot and cold. Most people that I meet tend to either love extreme heat but hate extreme cold, or love extreme cold but hate extreme height. I, on the other hand, extremely hate either extreme, whether hot or cold. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mitsguy2001 Posted May 20, 2012 #186 Share Posted May 20, 2012 What would also be interesting would be to see how many elegant or formal nights people would prefer. I suspect that most people enjoy or at least tollerate 1 formal night, but consider the 2nd formal night (on a 7 day cruise) to be a nuissance, especially since it's usually on a port day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishtaco Posted May 20, 2012 #187 Share Posted May 20, 2012 Personally I like to get dressed up,I work in construction and dont get many chances to get dressed up, the formal night photos are well worth the effort when you look back on them. Den Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mitsguy2001 Posted May 20, 2012 #188 Share Posted May 20, 2012 Ok, Im going to get hammered here.. I love to see how the women are speaking for their husbands. Would love to see a true, blind poll, seperated from men and women. I think the women would be shocked to how many of thier DH's really dont enjoy dressing up. But we do it because we love our DW's and like to keep them happy. Facts, Just the Facts.. :D I posted a poll in another thread. Surprisingly, so far, formal night seems more popular with men than with women. Although, not many people have responded so far, so it's probably not yet a representative sample. Also, although I explicitly said that you may only answer for yourself, and not for your spouse or anyone else, I still wonder how many of the "men" are really women posting for their husband. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Susie51 Posted May 20, 2012 #189 Share Posted May 20, 2012 We are looking forward to it. DH looks fantastic in his tux. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toesnsand02771 Posted May 21, 2012 #190 Share Posted May 21, 2012 Thirdly, to be honest, I find that women are very hypocritical when it comes to dress. My wife (and presumably many other women) refuses to wear anything "revealing" unless it is hot outside. Yet she (and presumably many other women) expects me to wear a jacket and a tie no matter how hot it is outside. You may be presuming wrong on this one. My wife could care less what I wear to dinner and she enjoys dressing in revealing outfits when away. Just sayin. Am I alone on this one? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JennLuvs2Cruise Posted May 21, 2012 #191 Share Posted May 21, 2012 I love elegant nights! It is far & few where I have an occasion that allows me to get dressed up in beautiful dresses & high heels. As far as DF goes, he hates dressing up so he despises elegant nights, haha! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cawagner Posted May 21, 2012 #192 Share Posted May 21, 2012 OK, I just have to give my 2 cents here. While more women than men may prefer to dress up, you shouldn't assume that NO men like to. My husband actually DOES like to put his tux on and go to dinner. He does not have to dress for work since we're in FL and almost no one does. BTW, I take exception to the idea that women's elegant clothes are somehow more comfortable and that's why we enjoy dressing for dinner. PUH-LEASE. Strap the twins in with an underwire, shimmy into some pantyhose, and add high heels (not to mention the jewelry and accessories) and I defy you to tell me that we are somehow more comfortable than wearing a tie in the dining room :rolleyes: The people who do like to dress up, do so for a multitude of reasons. We enjoy it because frankly, we clean up nice:D. Also, in our case, it adds a sense of occasion to dining out that putting on our good flip flops and heading over to Texas Roadhouse just doesn't. We do exactly the same, but..... :eek: pantyhose, eek! :p waaaay to hot out to put on some hose. I havent worn pantyhose in probably 15 years LOL, but I do put on the fancy dress with heels, hubby with the suit and tie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby_Mac Posted May 21, 2012 #193 Share Posted May 21, 2012 Not really. I'm on the cruise to relax, wearing a suite doesn't get make me relaxed. If the wife wants to get dressed up, I get dressed up. If she aint happy, I aint relaxing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mitsguy2001 Posted May 21, 2012 #194 Share Posted May 21, 2012 We do exactly the same, but..... :eek: pantyhose, eek! :p waaaay to hot out to put on some hose. I havent worn pantyhose in probably 15 years LOL, but I do put on the fancy dress with heels, hubby with the suit and tie. Isn't it somewhat hypocritical of you that it's "too hot" for you to wear pantyhose, yet you expect your husband to wear a suit and tie no matter how hot it is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Disneycruisers Posted May 21, 2012 #195 Share Posted May 21, 2012 not really. I'm on the cruise to relax, wearing a suite doesn't get make me relaxed. If the wife wants to get dressed up, i get dressed up. If she aint happy, i aint relaxing. rofl! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cawagner Posted May 21, 2012 #196 Share Posted May 21, 2012 Isn't it somewhat hypocritical of you that it's "too hot" for you to wear pantyhose, yet you expect your husband to wear a suit and tie no matter how hot it is? He has never complained, he looks forward to it...I dont "make" him wear anything he don't want to :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bashlin Posted May 21, 2012 #197 Share Posted May 21, 2012 i enjoy it and actually the whole family looks forward to it. it's always a great time with family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Midazolam Posted May 21, 2012 #198 Share Posted May 21, 2012 Curious..are u really into Elegant night? YES Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crusinfamof4 Posted May 21, 2012 #199 Share Posted May 21, 2012 My family and I chose not to partake in elegant night. We are on vacation. We choose to eat at the buffet those nights. To each their own! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mitsguy2001 Posted May 21, 2012 #200 Share Posted May 21, 2012 He has never complained, he looks forward to it...I dont "make" him wear anything he don't want to :) He may not complain, but it doesn't mean he likes it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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