Jim, as this will be your first cruise, I’ll share our experience on our first cruise 30 years ago. Our teenage son and daughter were with us. First dinner when the waiter came for our dessert order, our son asked “Can I order 2 desserts?” The waiter replied, “Let me explain something. On this ship there are no rules. You make the rules”. After that, whenever our son ordered anything, at any meal, any time of day, the waiter would write down the order and then say “And to follow …?