I haven't been on Cunard in more than a decade. Back then it was a formal dress every night. It sounds like the dress code has changed drastically. I am disappointed that I won't get to see my partner in a tux every night but he is excited to wear a tshirt and jacket for dinner. I don't want to stand out like a sore thumb. Can I wear white jeggings and a fancy top to dinner? Do people wear athletic shoes in the dining room? When I searched for dress code there was mention of "shoe gate" Are they picky about shoes?