desertratts Posted April 20, 2008 #1 Share Posted April 20, 2008 Going on our first cruise in approximately 43 days, 16 hrs. but who is counting :D . I have a question about the formal dinners. Just how formal is it? Do I need the 3 piece suit? Does my wife and girls need ballroom gowns? We are a pretty casual family but would like to attend the formal dinner. I would hate to pack a suit and find out that everyone else is just wearing polo shirts? Any pointers would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cruiserbryce Posted April 20, 2008 #2 Share Posted April 20, 2008 for the most part everyone dresses quite well...on our cruise last week most men were in suits and women wearing cocktail dresses Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KC_fn Posted April 20, 2008 #3 Share Posted April 20, 2008 Afraid you'll need to pack the suit, but the vest (3rd piece) and the ballgowns are completely unnecessary. A cocktail dress for her is plenty formal enough. Polo shirts and slacks are perfect for other nights, and the wife can wear sundresses or separates. Enjoy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Putterdude Posted April 20, 2008 #4 Share Posted April 20, 2008 If you are on a Celebrity ship they do suggest that men be in jackets and ties on informal nights and polo or sport shirts and slacks on casual nights. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
desertratts Posted April 20, 2008 Author #5 Share Posted April 20, 2008 I guess I will leave the extra pair of flip flops and shorts for off the ship. We will be on Royal Carribean cruising the Baja. Thanks for the help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chipmaster Posted April 20, 2008 #6 Share Posted April 20, 2008 Going on our first cruise in approximately 43 days, 16 hrs. but who is counting :D . I have a question about the formal dinners. Just how formal is it? Do I need the 3 piece suit? Does my wife and girls need ballroom gowns? We are a pretty casual family but would like to attend the formal dinner. I would hate to pack a suit and find out that everyone else is just wearing polo shirts? Any pointers would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance! Enjoy that first cruise!! Go to every formal night, the menu and ambience make it special and enjoyable evening. There will be lots of ship photographers looking you capture you at your best and later to seperate you from your $ for those pretty pictures of you in your "formal" wear! I would suggest you pack what you would dress as you would attend any 30-50 dollar a person nice local dining establishment. If you wear a suit and a gown then go for it If you would go in a dockers and a dress shirt with our w/o tie go for it. If you are are much more casual and a jeans person. I'd say at lease wear a nice pair, a decent shirt and no tennis shoes. Will you get stares and lots of wrath from the formal police here? You bet ya, but unless are trying to make a "statement" you probably wont' get thrown out. Just search and you see opinions and passions run high on this, comically high :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GORDONCHICK Posted April 20, 2008 #7 Share Posted April 20, 2008 Going on our first cruise in approximately 43 days, 16 hrs. but who is counting :D . I have a question about the formal dinners. Just how formal is it? Do I need the 3 piece suit? Does my wife and girls need ballroom gowns? We are a pretty casual family but would like to attend the formal dinner. I would hate to pack a suit and find out that everyone else is just wearing polo shirts? Any pointers would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance! Since it appears you will be on a 4 or 5 night RCCL cruise, you would probably be fine with a sport coat, dress shirt, and slack. The ladies in your family would be fine with what they would wear to a dressy but not quite formal wedding. But I will say, a suit on you and the ladies dressed to the 9s would make a fab family photo and a great souvenir! We don't normally dress up in our daily lives either (OKC is a very laid-back kind of place), so we really love formal nights. DH wears a suit and tie, as does DS (he's nearly 7). I have worn both long gowns and cocktail dress (prefering the latter for packing reasons). And you don't have to spend a fortune. The girls can find dresses on sale at many places, and resail shops are great too. I've found some great deals at Ross and TJ Maxx. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DAGVBSB Posted April 20, 2008 #8 Share Posted April 20, 2008 Going on our first cruise in approximately 43 days, 16 hrs. but who is counting :D . I have a question about the formal dinners. Just how formal is it? Do I need the 3 piece suit? Does my wife and girls need ballroom gowns? We are a pretty casual family but would like to attend the formal dinner. I would hate to pack a suit and find out that everyone else is just wearing polo shirts? Any pointers would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance! Which cruise line? It ranges based on the cruise line. Some are more elegant that others, some look the other way if not all dress up and all formal nights are optional in all dining rooms on NCL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Essiesmom Posted April 20, 2008 #9 Share Posted April 20, 2008 You didn't say how old your girls are, but some teens have formals they have only worn once...and find it a great opportunity to wear them again. I have been on short cruises (4/5 days) where the formal night is the first full day, and those girls take delight in continuing to wear a different formal each night after...EM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kozak Posted April 21, 2008 #10 Share Posted April 21, 2008 We are also taking our first cruise this July, a 4 nighter on Soveriegn of the Seas. The formal night question is causing controversy in our family. My bro-in-law INSISTS that shorts, golf shirt, and sandals are acceptable for the dining room all 4 nights, including the formal night. Anyone know RCI policy on this? Will he be served dinner? Or, will others just stare and make comments to their appropriately dressed table mates? Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Northshorecruisers Posted April 21, 2008 #11 Share Posted April 21, 2008 Congrats on your first cruise - you will have a great time! We have always dressed formally - that's part of the cruise for us. My husband rents a tuxedo (the one you do online that serves the cruiselines) and I wear a long dress. Our first cruise, my 14 y/o son wore pants, shirt, tie & jacket - but said he felt underdressed. So, our last cruise he and his friend rented tuxes as well. So nice to see them dressed up. You will see people who think that if they put on a tie, they are formal. Also women that if they put on a dress - they are formal. You will also see people dressed to the nines. For your family, being first cruise and growing children - I wouldn't go all out. A suit for you, cocktail dress for your wife (although if she wants to spend some money she can get some great stuff on line through stores or sites, just have to watch the sales), and now would be a good time to pick up dressier clothes for your daughters (after Easter sales)-just keep in mind how much they will grow before the cruise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GORDONCHICK Posted April 21, 2008 #12 Share Posted April 21, 2008 We are also taking our first cruise this July, a 4 nighter on Soveriegn of the Seas. The formal night question is causing controversy in our family. My bro-in-law INSISTS that shorts, golf shirt, and sandals are acceptable for the dining room all 4 nights, including the formal night.Anyone know RCI policy on this? Will he be served dinner? Or, will others just stare and make comments to their appropriately dressed table mates? Thanks This is from RCCL's website: Remember, shorts, T-shirts, and bathing suits are not considered appropriate attire in the dining rooms at dinner. Casual dress dining is available nightly in the Windjammer Cafe. And be aware you'll also need smart casual attire for some of our specialty restaurants. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lady_cruiser Posted April 21, 2008 #13 Share Posted April 21, 2008 I have been to many Mardi Gras Balls (Krewe of Babylon) in New Orleans and know the difference between a ball gown and just formal wear. Your wife and children might be comfortable in something like this. They can bring one long skirt and by changing the tops, shoes and jewelry they will have two different outfits to wear on formal nights. http://pictures.cruisecritic.com/data/509/us_and_capt.JPG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CruisnGram Posted April 21, 2008 #14 Share Posted April 21, 2008 The formal night question is causing controversy in our family. My bro-in-law INSISTS that shorts, golf shirt, and sandals are acceptable for the dining room all 4 nights, including the formal night. Shorts are not acceptable for men any night in RCL dining rooms, let alone formal night. Change the shorts to Khaki's and that'll be fine for regular nights. Throw a jacket over the golf shirt and he's good to go on formal night......doubt anyone will turn him away for the flip flops! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Houndmom Posted April 21, 2008 #15 Share Posted April 21, 2008 Ball gown, not necessary. Cocktail dresses are perfectly fine. Many ladies, including myself, like to wear floor-length, but that doesn't mean poofy, heavy, or bridesmaid-obnoxious. :) Tux not at all necessary. Jacket with shirt and tie, highly recommended, especially if the ladies are dressing up. Long pants and nice shirt, required. Shorts and sandals, not acceptable, have seen guys turned away. This is direct from the RCCL website: "Suggested guidelines for these nights are: Casual: Sport shirts and slacks for men, sundresses or pants for women Smart Casual: Jackets and ties for men, dresses or pantsuits for women Formal: Suits and ties or tuxedos for men, cocktail dresses for women Dining Rooms and Specialty Restaurants No bare feet, caps, tank tops or bathing suits are permitted in these areas. Shorts are not allowed during dinner. Windjammer Café No bare feet are allowed. Tank tops and caps are not allowed during dinner." Have a great trip! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kozak Posted April 22, 2008 #16 Share Posted April 22, 2008 Shorts are not acceptable for men any night in RCL dining rooms, let alone formal night. Change the shorts to Khaki's and that'll be fine for regular nights. Throw a jacket over the golf shirt and he's good to go on formal night......doubt anyone will turn him away for the flip flops! :D Thanks for the tip! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cb at sea Posted April 22, 2008 #17 Share Posted April 22, 2008 Formal doesn't have to be "ballgowns"--any evening gown will be fine! (Think "slinky--easier to pack!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radckh Posted April 29, 2008 #18 Share Posted April 29, 2008 Going on Carnival cruise (first ever cruise!) in July... I'll wear the one suite that I own for the formal nights and my wife and daughter have dresses to wear. My question is will my 16 year old son be fine in slacks, dress shirt and tie - no jacket? Thanks, Rob Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RetireeWannabee Posted April 29, 2008 #19 Share Posted April 29, 2008 It would be nice if he had a jacket but there would likely be others without jackets so I'd say not required - especially since he'll be wearing a tie. I understand at that age he might not need one in everyday life and could quickly grow out of it. You can take a look at a local Goodwill store and get one really cheap so you don't care how much use he gets out of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
songanddance Posted April 30, 2008 #20 Share Posted April 30, 2008 Shorts are not acceptable for men any night in RCL dining rooms, let alone formal night. Change the shorts to Khaki's and that'll be fine for regular nights. Throw a jacket over the golf shirt and he's good to go on formal night......doubt anyone will turn him away for the flip flops! :D I'm a little confused. What color golf shirt would be considered formal at say the White house Journalist dinner? or is the definition for formal different in different places. I always thought formal meant formal not just take a shower and wear something clean. Guess I don't get out much any more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happy ks Posted April 30, 2008 #21 Share Posted April 30, 2008 Looking at the OP's prior posts, it looks like they are going on a 4 night Monarch cruise to Ensenada. I'd not do a ballgown for the lady, too much to pack. I wear a cocktail length dress and it works fine. A suit for him is the best choice, more than anything else dress to compliment each other in degree of formality. The 4 nighters are really not quite as "formal" as longer cruises. You even will see the occasional man not in a jacket or tie, but they are in the minority as far as I have paid attention. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbisailsolo Posted April 30, 2008 #22 Share Posted April 30, 2008 just my 2 cents here.. you can dress however you like, for the most part, on most ships. some like to dress to the 9s, others are more casual. its just a matter of preference. I have done both, and didnt feel and better or worse for it. and especially kids, it is even more lenient. i took suits for my boys on some, and on others they wore slacks and nice sweaters. its just a matter of how much you feel like investing, and if you think you will have the opportuinity to wear the clothing again. i have 2 cruises planed, and I will be dressy, but by no means formal. one thing i have never seen on the 7 cruises i took, were any women in long gowns. and that includes an new years eve cruise on rccl. hope this helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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