I have to agree with others here, my experience with the crew members was so different than a "regular" cruise! Besides them appearing to be more relaxed, I really got to know them, much more beyond the surface level, it just really enhanced my experience of the cruise. Agree with others it is what you make it to be. Everyone is so relaxed and just more open to get to know everyone, I equated to being at a great wedding. Do you want to have nonstop sex? You can have that in almost any combination.Do you want to grab a drink and stare out at the ocean in a quiet area, you can find that. It is really like any other cruise, except its just more! Message me for any info, I have only been on one so far but really looking to go again.