brnsnbrws Posted April 11, 2011 #1 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Our last 2 cruises with Carnival ended in devastation. In Nov 2009 me, 3 of my daughters and my sister were 3 days into our cruise on the Valor and we received word that my mother-in-law had passed away. We disembarked in Belize and flew home. We decided to cruise the same itinerary again since we missed ports we wanted to see, but on a different ship. We were on the Glory, 4/03/2011 sailing and 4 days into our cruise we received word that one of my daughters who was at home had died. We disembarked and flew home again. Although none of this was Carnival's fault we will never be able to step foot on a cruise ship again. I have to say that Guest Services was wonderful. They couldn't have been kinder or more helpful. They had meals delivered to our cabins, unlimited use of the ships phone, helped secure flights, took care of our luggage, got us through customs and secured transportation to the airport. After 2 deaths in a row while on a cruise we can't ever cruise again for fear of something else devastating happening. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kammerer3209 Posted April 11, 2011 #2 Share Posted April 11, 2011 I am so sorry for your loss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
disneylynn Posted April 11, 2011 #3 Share Posted April 11, 2011 WOW! I am so sorry for you loss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klmorg Posted April 11, 2011 #4 Share Posted April 11, 2011 I am so sorry OP... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michellejed Posted April 11, 2011 #5 Share Posted April 11, 2011 I am so sorry for your loss!! I don't know if I could get back on a cruise ship again either! It is nice to hear Carnival was there to help you in your time of need. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StingRaysfan Posted April 11, 2011 #6 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Thats horrible..I'm not even sure what the probability of this happening is! I am soooo sorry for your losses.... :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belkin Posted April 11, 2011 #7 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Can't say that I blame you. So sorry for your loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
7toEleven Posted April 11, 2011 #8 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Sorry for you loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
firefly333 Posted April 11, 2011 #9 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Im the same way about all inclusives, I lost all my money, (and yes I had insurance, didnt cover me since I was not related by blood), lost over $1000, which was just my share. I never went, as I had to attend a funeral the day I was supposed to be leaving. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valtandc Posted April 11, 2011 #10 Share Posted April 11, 2011 god bless.....sorry for your loss. horrible Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jerseytomato Posted April 11, 2011 #11 Share Posted April 11, 2011 I'm so sorry for your losses. on 2 of my last 3 vacations (one cruise, one land) 2 different friends lost a parent unexpectedly. I'm getting ready for my next cruise and my friends have joked that they're getting nervous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roe95695 Posted April 11, 2011 #12 Share Posted April 11, 2011 I am truely sorry for your loss. I don't blame you I know for me it would be very difficult to cruise again. May time help heal the pain you and your family are feeling. I know the void will be with you always but, I know the pain will cease as time goes on. I lost my 1st husband in 2000 and my dad in 2006 I miss them each and everyday but my heart dosne't ache as much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hfweather Posted April 11, 2011 #13 Share Posted April 11, 2011 I am so sorry all that happened while you were cruising. Thinking of you and your family. Renee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
framerman Posted April 11, 2011 #14 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Our last 2 cruises with Carnival ended in devastation. In Nov 2009 me, 3 of my daughters and my sister were 3 days into our cruise on the Valor and we received word that my mother-in-law had passed away. We disembarked in Belize and flew home. We decided to cruise the same itinerary again since we missed ports we wanted to see, but on a different ship. We were on the Glory, 4/03/2011 sailing and 4 days into our cruise we received word that one of my daughters who was at home had died. We disembarked and flew home again. Although none of this was Carnival's fault we will never be able to step foot on a cruise ship again. I have to say that Guest Services was wonderful. They couldn't have been kinder or more helpful. They had meals delivered to our cabins, unlimited use of the ships phone, helped secure flights, took care of our luggage, got us through customs and secured transportation to the airport. After 2 deaths in a row while on a cruise we can't ever cruise again for fear of something else devastating happening. So very sorry for your loss.................. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SG81 Posted April 11, 2011 #15 Share Posted April 11, 2011 very sorry to hear about you loss. i don't think i'd want to cruise again either Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
capndinghy Posted April 11, 2011 #16 Share Posted April 11, 2011 What a sad story. I can understand why the poor OP is so 'gun shy'. Hopefully at some point in the future she will feel different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geezersgirl Posted April 11, 2011 #17 Share Posted April 11, 2011 I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mimgan3 Posted April 11, 2011 #18 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Our last 2 cruises with Carnival ended in devastation. In Nov 2009 me, 3 of my daughters and my sister were 3 days into our cruise on the Valor and we received word that my mother-in-law had passed away. We disembarked in Belize and flew home. We decided to cruise the same itinerary again since we missed ports we wanted to see, but on a different ship. We were on the Glory, 4/03/2011 sailing and 4 days into our cruise we received word that one of my daughters who was at home had died. We disembarked and flew home again. Although none of this was Carnival's fault we will never be able to step foot on a cruise ship again. I have to say that Guest Services was wonderful. They couldn't have been kinder or more helpful. They had meals delivered to our cabins, unlimited use of the ships phone, helped secure flights, took care of our luggage, got us through customs and secured transportation to the airport. After 2 deaths in a row while on a cruise we can't ever cruise again for fear of something else devastating happening. First let me say, please accept my deepest sympathy for your losses, I know this is a terrible loss to bare, I too have suffered 2 close family member deaths while on vacation, once on a cruise, and once a land vacation in Florida. The very same thoughts came to me, maybe if I stop vacationing, I will stop losing people, as crazy as that may sound, I too know that is part of the process. Don't allow destiny to stop you and your family from doing something you love, that would not be fair to those you have lost, and those still with you. Believe me, I understand, but with time this will pass, and the loving memories of you loved ones, will cause you to want to do the things you enjoy the most. We have no control over life, so please don't let this stop you from cruising. Again, I am very sorry for you loss Tim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tralynn Posted April 11, 2011 #19 Share Posted April 11, 2011 I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you and your family are able to find peace in the memories of your loved ones. God bless all of you. *To all of those judging, pushing your views, giving that "get back on the horse" speech, or fighting over your psychology courses, please save that for another thread. The OP is obviously hurting and none of that helps. JMHO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cruise Sampler Posted April 11, 2011 #20 Share Posted April 11, 2011 I am so sorry for your losses. I am also extremely pleased that in the midst of your horrible experience that Carnival Staff stepped up to the plate to help and assist you. Maybe you can trust in the probability of this not occurring again in a few years....will allow you to take a care free cruise in your future. Right now, most people would surely feel the same-shadow of fear- going anywhere near a cruise ship for a while. My prayers are with you. This is a rare and hurtful dual loss to endure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
truchattycathy Posted April 11, 2011 #21 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Please accept my deepest sympathy. I completely understand your desire to never cruise again. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julienatul Posted April 11, 2011 #22 Share Posted April 11, 2011 How tragic. So sorry for your losses and I completely understand if you never cruised again. I wouldnt be able to either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommaC82 Posted April 11, 2011 #23 Share Posted April 11, 2011 I am so sorry, and understand your feelings completely. My thoughts and prayers are with and your family! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bythehex Posted April 11, 2011 #24 Share Posted April 11, 2011 Our last 2 cruises with Carnival ended in devastation. In Nov 2009 me, 3 of my daughters and my sister were 3 days into our cruise on the Valor and we received word that my mother-in-law had passed away. We disembarked in Belize and flew home. We decided to cruise the same itinerary again since we missed ports we wanted to see, but on a different ship. We were on the Glory, 4/03/2011 sailing and 4 days into our cruise we received word that one of my daughters who was at home had died. We disembarked and flew home again. Although none of this was Carnival's fault we will never be able to step foot on a cruise ship again. I have to say that Guest Services was wonderful. They couldn't have been kinder or more helpful. They had meals delivered to our cabins, unlimited use of the ships phone, helped secure flights, took care of our luggage, got us through customs and secured transportation to the airport. After 2 deaths in a row while on a cruise we can't ever cruise again for fear of something else devastating happening. I'm so terribly sorry for your losses. You have my sincerest sympathy. I had a similar situation on a Princess cruise. My husband and I were away on a long-awaited cruise for just the two of us, when I got word that my Mom passed away suddenly. Due to unforseen circumstances, by the time we received word, we were unable to make travel connections, and since the next two days were at sea, I was unable to fly home. Those few days on the ship were the worst days of my entire life. Trust me when I say that I totally understand your feelings of devastation and how you've been traumatized. This May we're going on our first Princess cruise in 3 years, only because my husband really wants to go. But I'm afraid the moment I step on the ship all those feelings will come back to me and it will be difficult to enjoy the cruise. Hopefully that won't happen and this will help me heal those feelings. My hope is that one day you'll find a way to return to cruising without the fear holding you back. My heart goes out to you, there are those of us who DO understand exactly how you feel. Sharon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jashmom Posted April 11, 2011 #25 Share Posted April 11, 2011 OP...so sorry to hear about your losses! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! Cheryl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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