KPfromCT Posted April 21, 2014 #126 Share Posted April 21, 2014 You posted the same thing in a separate thread but I'll respond to it where it should have been left in this thread. Certainly it's not right for somebody to take your chair when your wife has been gone only a few minutes but the vast majority of the cases are a different situation. I have never removed anybody's belongings from a chair however I do think it's very unfair the way there are numerous loungers occupied only by towels for extended periods of time on the deck. What would have been nice is if you had offered for that person to sit in your wife's chair only while she is gone. A lot of times a person is only looking to sit someplace for a few minutes and would be gone before the person even got back. If it's clearly understood from the beginning that the seat is only open until your wife gets back even if that's only a few seconds later then I think courtesy should be used. Sent from my Nexus 7 using Forums mobile app No! Why would you do this? I'm sorry, but my wife just went to the ladies room, and she'll be back in 3 minutes. But, HEY, if you would like to sit here for those 3 minutes, that's fine. WHO WOULD DO THAT?????????:confused::confused::confused: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TPFKAH Posted April 21, 2014 #127 Share Posted April 21, 2014 Something similar happened to us on the Breeze last year...Got down to Lido around 8:00. Claimed our six chairs, and, yes, ALL 6 of us were there:rolleyes: Put our towels and belongings down, and went to grab breakfast at the buffet, to bring back and enjoy in our chairs. While we were gone, MAYBE 10 minutes, we all came back to stickers on our chairs. Well this LOVELY family saw the stickers and figured that made the chairs THEIRS. The time was clearly marked on the stickers. Needless to say DH had some CHOICE words for this woman. She was a NASTY individual.:rolleyes: She walked away swearing and grumbling. I think half the problem is that people don't understand how it works. Not sure why one wouldn't go and get their food first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KPfromCT Posted April 21, 2014 #128 Share Posted April 21, 2014 Not sure why one wouldn't go and get their food first. Not sure why being gone for 10 minutes breaks any rules:rolleyes::rolleyes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pine Bluff Posted April 21, 2014 #129 Share Posted April 21, 2014 Not sure why being gone for 10 minutes breaks any rules:rolleyes::rolleyes: Intend to move stuff if it's sitting unattended for ten minutes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Out to sea! Posted April 21, 2014 #130 Share Posted April 21, 2014 (edited) Not sure why being gone for 10 minutes breaks any rules:rolleyes::rolleyes: It's not breaking any rules but it creates less of a chance for problems. I go get my food first as well while my wife finds us a seat and then she goes and gets her food. No problem, no chance for a problem. Edited April 21, 2014 by Out to sea! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Out to sea! Posted April 21, 2014 #131 Share Posted April 21, 2014 Intend to move stuff if it's sitting unattended for ten minutes. If you know something has only been vacant for 10 minutes and you decide to move it, you're opening yourself up to a tongue lashing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jana60 Posted April 22, 2014 #132 Share Posted April 22, 2014 Not sure why being gone for 10 minutes breaks any rules:rolleyes::rolleyes: #1) I've never seen carnival put a sticker on the chair until the person has been gone much longer than 10 minutes. Typically its more like 20 to 30 minutes before they put the first sticker on. #2) I've been on 15 Carnival Cruises and I'm going on my 16th one in another week. As you can imagine I have been to the buffet many times on many ships and I have never seen a person make it through the buffet in 10 minutes. Both of these factors together make me believe that your group were indeed away from the chairs a lot longer than 10 minutes. Sent from my Nexus 7 using Forums mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuckyZ Posted April 22, 2014 #133 Share Posted April 22, 2014 (edited) What would have been nice is if you had offered for that person to sit in your wife's chair only while she is gone. A lot of times a person is only looking to sit someplace for a few minutes and would be gone before the person even got back. If it's clearly understood from the beginning that the seat is only open until your wife gets back even if that's only a few seconds later then I think courtesy should be used. You can't be serious with this post. People aren't bullying to get a seat for a few minutes. They are trying to take your occupied chair for their own for the rest of the day. Please be reasonable. If you know something has only been vacant for 10 minutes and you decide to move it, you're opening yourself up to a tongue lashing. Totally agree. We are adults and we need to start acting like adults. Don't move stuff from a chair that's only been unoccupied for 10 minutes. Not sure why one wouldn't go and get their food first. Peoples habits are their own and not up to you to dictate in what order they do things. Worry about your own vacation Edited April 22, 2014 by LuckyZ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jana60 Posted April 22, 2014 #134 Share Posted April 22, 2014 You can't be serious with this post. People aren't bullying to get a seat for a few minutes. They are trying to take your occupied chair for their own for the rest of the day. I disagree. I have had people come up while I was sitting waiting for my sister to return from the restroom . I offered my sisters chair until she returned. My sister returned 10 minutes later and the person got up and moved. The lady might have preferred to keep the seat longer. But she was very appreciative that I was willing to share the space even temporarily. And I personally never use a lounger for very long. My sister likes to sun bath for a couple of hours where as I only like to sit out long enough to not be dripping wet after getting out of the hot tub. So if someone is going to be gone for 10 minutes that would be plenty of time for me to get dried off before going back to the room. Sent from my Nexus 7 using Forums mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuckyZ Posted April 22, 2014 #135 Share Posted April 22, 2014 (edited) I disagree. I have had people come up while I was sitting waiting for my sister to return from the restroom . I offered my sisters chair until she returned. My sister returned 10 minutes later and the person got up and moved. The lady might have preferred to keep the seat longer. But she was very appreciative that I was willing to share the space even temporarily. And I personally never use a lounger for very long. My sister likes to sun bath for a couple of hours where as I only like to sit out long enough to not be dripping wet after getting out of the hot tub. So if someone is going to be gone for 10 minutes that would be plenty of time for me to get dried off before going back to the room. Sent from my Nexus 7 using Forums mobile app Agree to disagree. I think you are taking about the minority of cases. When people walk up to take an occupied chair with towels and a bag, it means they want your chair and want it for longer than 10 minutes. It happens to us every cruise. Edited April 22, 2014 by LuckyZ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4petmom Posted April 22, 2014 #136 Share Posted April 22, 2014 I am not making a judgement either way but, maybe we could all have a little common courtesy. Arguing over chairs, is this what we want to do on vacation? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuckyZ Posted April 22, 2014 #137 Share Posted April 22, 2014 I am not making a judgement either way but, maybe we could all have a little common courtesy. Arguing over chairs, is this what we want to do on vacation? Finally a voice of reason. Well said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishtaco Posted April 22, 2014 #138 Share Posted April 22, 2014 I am not making a judgement either way but, maybe we could all have a little common courtesy. Arguing over chairs, is this what we want to do on vacation? Not Me! thats why I dont care about chair hogs, I am personally not a chair hog and dont care about CHOGS, there are always chairs available elsewhere on other decks for me. But many on CC and indeed on all cruises only want the most popular chairs and loungers so its becoming a war of "rights" and "Morals" with rules being expected to be adhered to "By the book" only OR ELSE! lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hftmrock Posted April 22, 2014 #139 Share Posted April 22, 2014 Not Me! thats why I dont care about chair hogs, I am personally not a chair hog and dont care about CHOGS, there are always chairs available elsewhere on other decks for me. But many on CC and indeed on all cruises only want the most popular chairs and loungers so its becoming a war of "rights" and "Morals" with rules being expected to be adhered to "By the book" only OR ELSE! lol imagine if everybody did follow the rules by the book with lounge chairs. there would probably never be an issue with anyone getting a chair... oh the humanity!:rolleyes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishtaco Posted April 22, 2014 #140 Share Posted April 22, 2014 imagine if everybody did follow the rules by the book with lounge chairs. there would probably never be an issue with anyone getting a chair... oh the humanity!:rolleyes: You talk about Humanity in our world:confused: double:rolleyes::rolleyes:lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jana60 Posted April 22, 2014 #141 Share Posted April 22, 2014 Agree to disagree. I think you are taking about the minority of cases. When people walk up to take an occupied chair with towels and a bag, it means they want your chair and want it for longer than 10 minutes. It happens to us every cruise. Actually if you were correct there wouldn't be a problem. If people were prepared to plant their rear ends in the chair for an extended period of time as soon as they approach the chair then no one would be upset by the sight of numerous lounges occupied only by towels. It is because the people are not remaining in the chair but rather are off at the buffet or are at other activities while only a towel occupies the chair that makes people upset who are searching for a place to sit. I have never refused to allow someone to sit in a chair that was empty next to me no matter how briefly the chair was going to be empty and no one has ever become angry or discourteous. People usually respond to courtesy with courtesy. Sent from my Nexus 7 using Forums mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lylone Posted April 22, 2014 #142 Share Posted April 22, 2014 We never sit by the pool where it is usually not getting wind and HOT! We go up until we are out on deck near the front of the ship with a shower nearby. There are usually plenty of loungers up there. The pools are so small anyway I don't know why people HAVE to be in them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
courier111 Posted April 22, 2014 #143 Share Posted April 22, 2014 All I do is when I get up for my morning coffee I go by the lido deck and look around at all the chairs with towels on them and start moving towels and stack them or move them to random areas , very funny to watch people when they come back in two hours too find out they have been punked, I actually witnessed a push and shove with a elderly handicapped lady when she tried to find a chair in the adult section and when she asked who was sitting at a lounge chair everyone said no one has been here all morning, so her and her helper moved the towels only to be bullied and shoved off her chair by this Man ( did I mention she was handicapped ) security finally came as stand byers took care of the idiot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cgmiller63 Posted April 22, 2014 #144 Share Posted April 22, 2014 On my recent cruise it was a huge problem and it took away from the enjoyment of the pool. The majority of chairs were “reserved” and the pool attendant refused to do anything about it. I’m not talking about people running to the buffet to get food or drink, I’m talking hours. I pointed out to the attendant that there were only about 4 people in the pool but 20 or 30 so chairs were “reserved”. He just shrugged. This was in the Adults Only pool. People are just downright rude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cgmiller63 Posted April 22, 2014 #145 Share Posted April 22, 2014 It is nice to be near the pool in order to cool off on those hot days, but I choose not to do so either, in my case mainly because I have a temper that needs controlling, and choose to avoid confrontational situations that could lead to a problem.Kevin C LMFAO! I'm with you, brother! I get all worked up and my husband comes to my rescue, which escalates the situation. :eek: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Out to sea! Posted April 22, 2014 #146 Share Posted April 22, 2014 Not Me! thats why I dont care about chair hogs, I am personally not a chair hog and dont care about CHOGS, there are always chairs available elsewhere on other decks for me. But many on CC and indeed on all cruises only want the most popular chairs and loungers so its becoming a war of "rights" and "Morals" with rules being expected to be adhered to "By the book" only OR ELSE! lol Is there any other way to follow a rule other than by the book? You should be thankful I don't make you drop and give me 20! :p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTO-Girl Posted April 22, 2014 #147 Share Posted April 22, 2014 A couple of weeks ago we were on the Freedom of the Seas. The pool attendant would come around from time to time and fold the towels and lay them over the backs of the unoccupied loungers and put a sticker on the chair. If the towel had not been moved within the allotted time the items were removed. Seemed like a pretty good system...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrzRani Posted April 22, 2014 #148 Share Posted April 22, 2014 (edited) I like to dream a bit, but it would be awesome if the chairs had weight sensors, just like the front seat of a car for the airbag. If it senses weight (minimum perhaps 10-15lbs), the flag goes down. Hence, someone is using it and not off at breakfast, the bingo raffle, sleeping, at the gym. spa, casino, sports bar watching a game, or shopping. If it doesn't sense weight for 40 minutes. "Available". I know this is primitive, but you get the jist of my idea. Then those hogs would be exposed, and I'm sure it'll be alarming to see how many chairs do remain empty. Carry on with the CHOG banter~ Edited April 22, 2014 by CrzRani Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fourkittys Posted April 22, 2014 #149 Share Posted April 22, 2014 No! Why would you do this? I'm sorry, but my wife just went to the ladies room, and she'll be back in 3 minutes. But, HEY, if you would like to sit here for those 3 minutes, that's fine. WHO WOULD DO THAT?????????:confused::confused::confused: My feelings exacty! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crusinpsychRN Posted April 22, 2014 #150 Share Posted April 22, 2014 With the decibel level of DJ music on Lido, you'd think no one would want to sit near that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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