Oosterdam public areas and shorts?

[bonstersd]

And as my final note on this topic, I think it's quite sad that a certain poster continues to make ugly remarks at every given opportunity. Not appropriate, not necessary, and NOT WELCOME!!!!

 

Will this poster even know it is him/her? (Is it me?) :)

[RuthC]

Himself times are changing nobody dresses for anything anymore.

Never realized I'm a "nobody". The things you can learn on this board!

[MikeT718]

WOW I guess I'm nobody also!!!!!:confused:

[herb]

WOW I guess I'm nobody also!!!!!:confused:

 

What happened to your glittermaker gif or for that matter, everybody's glittermaker gif?

[tortugas]

Will this poster even know it is him/her? (Is it me?)

 

 

Doubtful... but on the bright side, it seems we are all being nice again.

 

Let's let the horse die now that we have ridden him into the ground :-)

[ClothesHorseJoe]

Isn't it amazing how much venom in gereated about this topic? And how people use the subject matter to fling elitist insults at the people who are posting? I really like the one about the cut-offs in the dining room...like that's even what you were posting about? It's also great to see the same crap flung in the thread as in the one I posted on wearing jackets on formal night...by the same friendly people...Enjoy your cruise (wink, wink), but try to avoid the Daisy Duke shorts, spike heels, and anything that has to do with CAVIAR in the dining room...It may cause a run on oxygen.

[caviargal]

Himself times are changing nobody dresses for anything anymore. They used to dress to go down to dinner at home. Do you.

 

Caviargirl TA or not you have taken only 2 HAL cruises and 45 RCL cruises so give it a rest.

 

I am sure you guys have better things to do than respond like this. This is the most negative talk I have experienced on the CC boards.

 

And for the record I do enjoy dressing up for the evening.

 

I have cruised twice with HAL and attend their seminars and training sessions regulary. They very much emphasize their onboard experience and how this differentiates them from the masses.

 

I no longer cruise RCI because of the lax standards in their dining rooms, amongst other things.

 

And for the record, some folks still do dress for dinner and other occasions, this "nobody" included.

[peaches from georgia]

Just wondering what HAL ships you have sailed, caviargal? Adherence to the evening dress code varies a lot depending on the ship and, of course, things have gotten more casual everywhere, on some HAL ships more than others.

[caviargal]

Just wondering what HAL ships you have sailed, caviargal? Adherence to the evening dress code varies a lot depending on the ship and, of course, things have gotten more casual everywhere, on some HAL ships more than others.

 

I was a guest lecturer aboard the Nieuw Amsterdam and the old Noordam, and it was many years ago. At that time, the HAL product did not appeal to me and I did not return on my own. I prefered the fitness activities and nightlife on RCI. That line, however, has grown so lax in other aspects that I am booked on X and HAL for 2006. From these boards, it does seem that I should prepare to be disappointed.

 

I do understand that the world is becoming more casual - I would call it sloppy actually - but it is a shame that when one is asked to dress in a certain way for a certain occasion, that request is not respected.

 

IMO, those that choose to ignore the dress code set by HAL (or any cruise line) are inconsiderate, but, as long as HAL permits it, then it will continue to happen. And conditions are likely to deteriorate until most cruise lines are exactly alike. And that will surely be a shame as it is nice, IMHO, to have a line or two that suits everyone.

 

Soon there will be no ships left that offer a traditional cruising experience and those of us to whom ambiance is important will look elsewhere.

[herb]

If I'm not mistaken Crystal Cruises still attracts the upper echelon.

[Copper10-8]

If I'm not mistaken Crystal Cruises still attracts the upper echelon.

 

So does Cunard

[krewzin]

If I'm not mistaken Crystal Cruises still attracts the upper echelon.

 

Yeah, but unfortunately not at HAL prices. :D

[herb]

Yeah, but unfortunately not at HAL prices. :D

 

true, but ambiance and appearance are GUARANTEED! :D

[ekerr19]

It is "suggested" attire for the evening. I think there is even a note or sentence indicating something along the lines of ..."out of respect for your fellow passengers..."

 

Now, if those in your party happen to go back and change into shorts - so be it - I've seen it dozens of times and frankly, no one is going to ask them to leave a bar or the casino.

 

Our last cruise (Caribbean) on the Volendam, we saw more folks in shorts and tank top/shirts & sandals at night than we'd ever noticed in the past.

 

Unfortunately, it just seemed to be that many of these folks were the same people who parked their small kids on the carpet just outside the casino boundaries and left them sitting/sleeping there for hours - and apparently were very comfortable doing so. Very sad, imo. The lack of adherence to the dress code did not bother me, but seeing these kids crying and obviously ignored and tired did bother me quite a bit.

 

I honestly think it is crucial to pick a cruise line based upon your needs and desires. Club HAL services do not typically run past 10:00pm, and many are surprised to find no organized late night activities for children. If you truly desire a casual & relaxed environment, there are tons of great cruise options available. Typically, HAL appeals to the more conservative crowd.

 

We cruise HAL because we LIKE dressing up for dinner, dancing, shows and such each evening - this is a "plus" for us. I hate to think HAL may consider eliminating the suggested dress code of the evening because more and more people simply choose to "do their own thing" regardless of what is suggested or implied by way of good manners.

[Stevesan]

...am I understanding correctly that jeans and more importantly shorts are not allowed in any public areas in the evening? If my husband and his friends wish to change out of their tuxedos, and sit in the sports bar wearing walking shorts and polo shirts, will they be asked to leave? If my high heals and panty hose are killing me, and I decide to change after dinner into a nice pair of capris and a blouse will I be denied access to the casino?

Thanks in advance for your input.

 

Forgive me if I missed it, but I don't believe anyone directly answered your question(s). No, you will not be asked to leave public areas when in shorts, even on formal night. The one exception is the main dining room where the Maitre d' is expected to, and usually does, enforce the suggested dress code.

 

The following is offered FYI:

 

Will you be the only ones wearing shorts, etc, in public areas such as lounges and casino in the evening? That really depends primarily on itinerary. On a 7 day Caribbean cruise on Zuiderdam we saw a few in shorts and tee shirts in public areas, including the main show room, during every evening including formal. We even spotted a couple of Harley types in tank tops and chains in the evenings. So, although in the minority, you won't be alone.

I don't recall anyone dressed in shorts during the evenings on Europe cruises - certainly not on formal nights. Evening shorts were not evident during our recent and more extensive (2 week) S. Caribbean cruise on Veendam, either. Certainly not in Alaska, either.

 

Once again, the brief reply is no you won't be "asked to leave". Bring your shorts, spend the first evening or two scoping out the landscape to get a general impression - then do what you feel is appropriate and you are comfortable with.

[herb]

Forgive me if I missed it, but I don't believe anyone directly answered your question(s). No, you will not be asked to leave public areas when in shorts, even on formal night. The one exception is the main dining room where the Maitre d' is expected to, and usually does, enforce the suggested dress code.

 

The following is offered FYI:

 

Once again, the brief reply is no you won't be "asked to leave". Bring your shorts, spend the first evening or two scoping out the landscape to get a general impression - then do what you feel is appropriate and you are comfortable with.

 

Bravo, I liked your answer, and you didn't do it in a condescending manner. I especially liked the last paragraph :)