I totally understand. Someone on the sailing was kind enough to invite me for a drink and I didn't make it with the unexpected issue of our cabin flooding due to a burst pipe and then having to pack up and change cabins late one night. That really stunk but I rebounded and didn't allow it to ruin my cruise. As they say, when life gives you lemons, make lemonade!
We did have a wonderful cruise besides that. Met some people from my hometown who are now good friends and my husband and I had so much fun with Kerrie and her daughter Erin (We've gotten together since at home.) Had some great meals, great cocktails, really enjoyed the Sanctuary and met some great crew members like we always do.
I purchased my FCD on day 2 so must have been enjoying myself.
Have fun planning your next sailing and maybe our paths will cross one day.