I am not a widow, actually I am in "limbo". My husband is in a nursing home with severe Alzheimer's disease. He does not recognize me or our daughter. He is getting excellent care. My daughter mentioned last year she would love to see Alaska some day. So, her dream will come true this summer. We will be visiting Alaska along with my sister and niece. It will be my sister's first cruise after losing her husband and my 9-10th time to Alaska. We both know how proud our husbands would be that we have planned this adventure. I know my husband will be fine, but he is well cared for and we planned for any eventuality. Please remember life is very short and do and go as long as possible!