Yes, they want to remove dining that can accommodate the entire ship and force you to eat in restaurants that can accommodate about 1/5th of the ship. Makes total sense.
You mean their own personal status, not "shared with a parent" status?
There is no good way, unfortunately, other than to call and ask for their individual points (as compared to their relationship points)
All I can picture when I read stuff like this is like they went in and put up wood paneling, orange shag carpet and that orange/brown/tan pattern furniture.
These ships are used 24/7 nearly every day of the year. Every ship is "worn" after the first year of operation. That said no ship is derelict of maintenance. Crew does everything they can, inside and out, to keep things as non-worn as possible knowing that they basically have zero downtime to do anything that doesn't have a significant impact on passengers.
Plenty of people aren't saving for retirement and are just spending money as they get it.
And of course, there are plenty that $20k is a drop in the bucket for.