Yep, exactly.
I told the other party who is taking the 1 of the adults that I would not be getting any type of permission as it would not do me any good. They make their own choices, good or bad and then live with the consequences.
The TA is the one who mentioned it and I did not want to try and emberass her on the info zoom call.
1st time I ever used a TA in 20 plus cruises. Only reason, one of the people in our party knows this person so we went with it. With a big group it was convenient and they were helpful.
Party on!