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What is up with people wearing their bathrobes in the food and drink establishments?! (And nary a bath in sight, I might add.) I just don’t get it.

 

There was a woman in the King’s Court buffet wearing a nightie that tied at the neck and was wide open down the back for everyone to see her bra and Depends. That was the only time I’d ever wished someone was wearing their bathrobe. I felt bad for her, and wanted to politely mention it, just in case she was unaware. But when I looked at her husband (thinking that would cause the least embarrassment for her) he seemed okay with it. Maybe they were at that point in their marriage where he was oblivious to what she looked like. 🤷‍♀️

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3 hours ago, no1talks said:

 

Because far more damaging (to their mind) would be an aggressive passenger's confrontational response being recorded with any number of phones and then uploaded to social media.

 

I don't think that would damage Cunard's reputation so long as Cunard are genuinely wanting to keep a heightened dress code going.  People would see it and think either 'Cunard's not the cruise line for me if that's how I'll be treated in casual clothes on a formal night' or 'This looks just the cruise line for me as standards are kept high'.

 

The latter is how I felt two years ago when deciding on my first ever cruise and chose Cunard. I went on a mammoth YouTube session as well as signing up to Criusecritic (thank you), to work out what suited me best.  I've just booked my fourth cruise so, personally, I'm hoping the dress code is upheld as I want to continue to sail on Cunard, but I realise we all have different reasons for sailing.

 

 

 

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Apologies for more commentary but I was about to say that some people act very differently on sea vs on land. Does sea air make people think that anything goes? But then I just read that a guy in his 50’s was arrested at a local country club for assaulting a staff member. Really??

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4 minutes ago, NE John said:

Apologies for more commentary but I was about to say that some people act very differently on sea vs on land. Does sea air make people think that anything goes? But then I just read that a guy in his 50’s was arrested at a local country club for assaulting a staff member. Really??


I think it can be the effect of sea air, which we all know makes clothes tighter, leading to discomfort and grumpiness perhaps. 😀 Perhaps the bath robe was the only thing left that wasn’t too tight.

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I was in an upscale hotel, having breakfast in the private lounge, when a lady walked in in her bathrobe. One of the attendants had a few quiet words with her, helped her to obtain what she’d come for, then quietly escorted her out. It was handled well but if she’d chosen to go the confrontational route, who knows how it might have ended.

 

When I think of enforcement as it pertains to policy, I am reminded of enforcement as it pertains to child-rearing. If you have drawn a line and your child challenges it and wins, you have now taught them that the line is drawn by them. My guess is that these people are the product of such an upbringing. To stand your ground would only bring on a tantrum, as that is how they’ve learned to deal with getting their way. Luckily, it is not my problem to fix. It’s always fascinating to observe, however.

 

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14 minutes ago, *Miss G* said:

I was in an upscale hotel, having breakfast in the private lounge, when a lady walked in in her bathrobe. One of the attendants had a few quiet words with her, helped her to obtain what she’d come for, then quietly escorted her out. It was handled well but if she’d chosen to go the confrontational route, who knows how it might have ended.

 

When I think of enforcement as it pertains to policy, I am reminded of enforcement as it pertains to child-rearing. If you have drawn a line and your child challenges it and wins, you have now taught them that the line is drawn by them. My guess is that these people are the product of such an upbringing. To stand your ground would only bring on a tantrum, as that is how they’ve learned to deal with getting their way. Luckily, it is not my problem to fix. It’s always fascinating to observe, however.

 

Ritz Carlton Club level, Laguna Niguel, the second time a loud and noisy family ( children were early risers and made sure adjoining guests were also awake) came to breakfast in their night robes, they were asked to leave the  hotel.

 

He apparently was 'in film production'. Held no water and they left.

 

It can be done.

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6 minutes ago, Victoria2 said:

they were asked to leave the  hotel.

 

Wow! Now that’s what I call enforcement! 😂

 

I am guessing that there were a number of cumulative incidents, with appropriate warnings, and they had to follow through.

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11 minutes ago, *Miss G* said:

 

Wow! Now that’s what I call enforcement! 😂

 

I am guessing that there were a number of cumulative incidents, with appropriate warnings, and they had to follow through.

No idea. The concierge just told us they had been asked to leave when we asked if we were going to have yet another 5am wake up of thumps and shrieks. It was many years ago but we were impressed 

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12 minutes ago, Victoria2 said:

No idea. The concierge just told us they had been asked to leave when we asked if we were going to have yet another 5am wake up of thumps and shrieks. It was many years ago but we were impressed 


Better still, nobody told you to respect different cultures. 

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On 7/24/2024 at 3:00 PM, NightGuardianAngel said:

I heard of passengers getting kicked off at port of calls for the most innocent honest mistakes or extremely minor infractions that is not even a violation of any government laws (it takes very very little to get kicked out and banned).

Please elaborate on what behaviors/infractions that you have "heard" result in disembarkation, and where you "heard" this.

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5 hours ago, chengkp75 said:

Please elaborate on what behaviors/infractions that you have "heard" result in disembarkation, and where you "heard" this.

 

Don't know if it's true, but a story appeared here a few months ago that someone was kicked off a ship after a nasty altercation in a launderette. (Could be the nautical version of "urban legend")

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6 hours ago, chengkp75 said:

Please elaborate on what behaviors/infractions that you have "heard" result in disembarkation, and where you "heard" this.

CBD or any cannabis product onboard will do the trick of getting a pax kicked off and even banned from the line - even if the CBD doesn’t contain THC, even if it’s legal on land. There are various mainstream media reports of this infraction occurring. 

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A strange thing happened last year as we left Lisbon.

 

We had let go our lines, and were just starting our 180 deg turn. Then we stopped, then we went back in and tied up. The Port's gangway was deployed.

 

We thought it must be a casevac, but it wasn't. A single person pulling a roll on case disembarked, and we immediately let go for a second time.

 

Nobody knew why.

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9 hours ago, 3rdGenCunarder said:

 

Don't know if it's true, but a story appeared here a few months ago that someone was kicked off a ship after a nasty altercation in a launderette. (Could be the nautical version of "urban legend")

The question would be, "how nasty"?  Was it physical?  That would surely do it.

9 hours ago, NE John said:

CBD or any cannabis product onboard will do the trick of getting a pax kicked off and even banned from the line - even if the CBD doesn’t contain THC, even if it’s legal on land. There are various mainstream media reports of this infraction occurring. 

Having worked in the maritime industry for 46 years, quite aware of the restrictions on drug and alcohol use.  I am also versed in what is legal and illegal on ships, and what the Captain's authority is.  I am asking the OP what he/she has heard, considering the circumstances were described as "the most minor", or "not even illegal".

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1 hour ago, chengkp75 said:

The question would be, "how nasty"?  Was it physical?  That would surely do it.

Having worked in the maritime industry for 46 years, quite aware of the restrictions on drug and alcohol use.  I am also versed in what is legal and illegal on ships, and what the Captain's authority is.  I am asking the OP what he/she has heard, considering the circumstances were described as "the most minor", or "not even illegal".

Understood. I posted so others know about this CBD issue on cruise ships. 

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On 7/28/2024 at 7:30 PM, 3rdGenCunarder said:

 

Don't know if it's true, but a story appeared here a few months ago that someone was kicked off a ship after a nasty altercation in a launderette. (Could be the nautical version of "urban legend")

 

On 7/29/2024 at 7:46 AM, david63 said:

At least two people would have known why - the person getting off and the person that authorised it😉

OH I love the story of one lady pressing her gown, forgot her husband's dress shirt, leave and comes back her gown it gone, stolen. She reports it everywhere. That night while dancing after dinner, she sees her gown on the dance floor. She confronts the woman, the woman denies it. Officers show up and even the captain. They can not calm the women down. The poor woman sees her stolen gown & remembers only she knows the answer and then demands that the thief tell them what is written on the label. The thief refuses and the captain says he can do no more about it. Of course the label had the stores name on it.  Oh so many laundry room fight stories. 

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On the very last world cruise of the QE2 there aas a well known Hollywood person who was seen on several occasions wandering the public rooms in a bathrobe around early afternoons.

 

Also on this same trip a male passenger who embarked in Southampton and began drinking his way arould the world made the mistake of moving his harrasment of the female employess to harrasement of female passengers. At that point he was invited to have a chat with the Captain in the Captain's office cabin. The visit did not go well and the passenger found himself standing on the shore of Easter Island along with his luggage. And back then there was only one plane a week out of Easter Island to the mainland and it was three days away. So people can be removed from the ship on the word of the Captain.

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2 hours ago, Lakesregion said:

On the very last world cruise of the QE2 there aas a well known Hollywood person who was seen on several occasions wandering the public rooms in a bathrobe around early afternoons.

 

Also on this same trip a male passenger who embarked in Southampton and began drinking his way arould the world made the mistake of moving his harrasment of the female employess to harrasement of female passengers. At that point he was invited to have a chat with the Captain in the Captain's office cabin. The visit did not go well and the passenger found himself standing on the shore of Easter Island along with his luggage. And back then there was only one plane a week out of Easter Island to the mainland and it was three days away. So people can be removed from the ship on the word of the Captain.

Perfect sojourn for that passenger😜

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On 7/29/2024 at 10:21 AM, NE John said:

CBD or any cannabis product onboard will do the trick of getting a pax kicked off and even banned from the line - even if the CBD doesn’t contain THC, even if it’s legal on land. There are various mainstream media reports of this infraction occurring. 

This is a disgrace and a shameful act by any and all cruise lines particularly given the demographic of the Cunard Guests. A now legally prescribed product for people with cancer, schizophrenia, epilepsy, PTSD and various pain ailments is prohibited for people should they wish to cruise.

 

By this rational, ban *****, ban diabetes medication, ban blood thinners. Just ridiculous.

 

And I am not talking about stoners who want to blow bongs in their cabin. Even a tincture, gummy, or capsule is banned regardless of doctors prescription or letter.

 

An absolute joke of the industry. 

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CBD is very rarely prescribed in the UK (and we may prescribe it as a suppository, which tends to reduce patients' interest in it), and for non medical use CBD can only legally be sold within fairly tight parameters not extolling unproven health benefits. Very little USA sourced CBD meets this criteria. A very similar position to that of France and Spain, and the EU generally sees CBD as OK for topical use, but not consumption. Dubai it is simply banned totally, and if ships were seen as a source of CBD importation then the authorities there, and in much of the Middle East, would make cruise line travel extremely unpleasant. So we have to be realistic about this.

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13 hours ago, zak477 said:

OH I love the story of one lady pressing her gown, forgot her husband's dress shirt, leave and comes back her gown it gone, stolen. She reports it everywhere. That night while dancing after dinner, she sees her gown on the dance floor. She confronts the woman, the woman denies it. Officers show up and even the captain. They can not calm the women down. The poor woman sees her stolen gown & remembers only she knows the answer and then demands that the thief tell them what is written on the label. The thief refuses and the captain says he can do no more about it. Of course the label had the stores name on it.  Oh so many laundry room fight stories. 

I think that story falls into the category of urban legend as I have heard it quoted on virtually every cruise line at some point in the past.

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3 hours ago, e&mcruise said:

This is a disgrace and a shameful act by any and all cruise lines particularly given the demographic of the Cunard Guests

This is not an "act by a cruise line", it is law.  International conventions from the IMO prohibit dangerous drugs on ships (and even "THC free CBD" typically has minute amounts of THC in it) and THC is on that list.  Any nation that is signatory to those conventions (over 140 nations) will have laws that preclude taking these drugs onboard a ship, regardless of medical need.  Even countries where CBD is totally legal, like Holland, has laws that prohibit it's use on ships that fly the Dutch flag.  Ships have had a tighter regulatory stance on drugs than other areas of life for the last 3 decades or so.

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Aboard the QE2, I did see at the pool located at the QE2's stern there was a husband & wife. The husband then stands up and takes off his clothes and jumps into the pool wearing just a colored brief underwear. How low class can anyone get I remember thinking to myself?

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