Ha ha. You hit the nail on the head there. Just had to Jehovah's witnesses on the door step and when I said very nicely, I don't believe in religion, they went on and on and asked me who made the beauty on the planet. I said "science and biology". And they went on again.
I have said this before, I feel very lucky that in my flying career starting in the 70s, we had black, brown, Chinese, Muslim and gay crew. We never even noticed. It was just whether you were a nice decent person or not.
I feel it's rather a shame that it is necessary to have gay get togethers, but it obviously is, so good luck to you.
Andrew, I well remember meeting you with my husband and Shirley and you telling us about losing your partner. As you chose to join us on quite a few nights after that I can only assume we made you feel comfortable, either that or you just loved Shirley singing.🥰