but we have also had some wonderful times at precruise dinners .. just with other couples or a larger group..
in Cv, Italy, pre cruise I helped organize a pre cruise dinner at a local restaurant....walkable from several hotels... We ended up with abt 30 people..inside and outside, and were treated like family by the owners and staff. Enjoyed great food, fresh bread, wine, cheese fruit, desserts...very memorable.
Cruise Critic roll calls were much closer groups before fb came along.