Ifoundmydream Posted July 10, 2013 #551 Share Posted July 10, 2013 This thread is a bit weird and just shows how we make assumptions based on one small thing. What anyone does regarding tips is just one tiny action of a persons life. Some people may really struggle with tips because they don't earn much in a job that, for example, helps to save lives. Or they spend all their spare time working for good causes. Others may be loaded and feel good about tipping well yet spend the rest of the year being misers. most people are somewhere in the middle and able to make their own judgments based on their own morals and values. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
awhcruiser Posted July 10, 2013 #552 Share Posted July 10, 2013 Like! I think we do understand. You can't fool us. We know what removing tips means. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debde Posted July 10, 2013 #553 Share Posted July 10, 2013 I think we do understand. You can't fool us. We know what removing tips means. If it makes you feel better to think that-go right on ahead. awhcruiser- and if it makes you feel better to like it-go right on ahead too!! :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Palmetto Pilot Posted July 10, 2013 #554 Share Posted July 10, 2013 While some may choose to paint all service on RCCL ships as exceptional, our experience over the years is that this is not so. Even tho the vast majority of service personnel are in fact praiseworthy, on occasion we have had some that were at best poor. It is illogical to reward those bad with a gratuity which is given for good service provided. Too much common sense for this board. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimmy Geegitz Posted July 10, 2013 #555 Share Posted July 10, 2013 Why remove your tips and then tip $700? If you believe in tipping personally and plan to tip above requested amount then just hand the person cash and say this is in addition to the tips on our card. People that remove tips tip less for the most part or nothing at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KevinKruzer Posted July 11, 2013 #556 Share Posted July 11, 2013 (edited) I know I will probably get flamed for this post, but.... Why would someone want to remove tips? It could be just a traditional view of what "tips" are all about and/or the principle of it. If it is automatically entered on the bill and pre-paid, it isn't a tip anymore. It is a service fee. And many of us STILL pay above and beyond to those that touch us directly (steward, waiter/asst waiter, etc). Maybe that was the point. So now we are tipping before AND after...what a deal :D What about the future? Perhaps it is only a matter of time until the % of prepaid is raised. Next year? 5 years from now, etc.... eventually could it be raised to 17%? Then 20%? If so, you can bet service will deteriorate, if only slightly, if this is a slippery slope that the industry has put itself on. **fwiw, I prepay AND reward more...and have no intention of removing my tips but I understand that there are legit reasons for OTHERS and I will not judge them as stiffers.... unless they are PROVEN to be so. Edited July 11, 2013 by KevinKruzer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MisterBill99 Posted July 11, 2013 #557 Share Posted July 11, 2013 What about the future? Perhaps it is only a matter of time until the % of prepaid is raised. Next year? 5 years from now, etc.... eventually could it be raised to 17%? Then 20%? If so, you can bet service will deteriorate, if only slightly, if this is a slippery slope that the industry has put itself on. You inadvertently make an interesting point. Cruise tips are not based on percentage of what you paid. They're based on some amount that the cruise line says that people should tip. So, someone in the cheapest inside cabin pays as much as the person in an expensive balcony. Only those in suites pay more (and not much more, maybe a dollar a day more). Now given that people pay different prices for the same class of cabins, percentages won't work, and it probably shouldn't, since in theory everyone should get the same level of service (except for suites), even if you're in the cheapest cabin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poshscot Posted July 11, 2013 #558 Share Posted July 11, 2013 No one ever tips me at work....plus you will find all those on the ships earn very generous amounts compared to their economies..i spoke to one couple who said after 3 yrs on a ship they bought their house in full....it takes a uk resident approx 25 yrs or more to do that .so whos poor ? Makes you wonder !!! So if you want to tip then tip if not dont...but dont tell me what i should or shouldnt do....:-) Sent from my GT-I9300 using Forums mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newtoncruise Posted July 11, 2013 #559 Share Posted July 11, 2013 No one ever tips me at work....plus you will find all those on the ships earn very generous amounts compared to their economies..i spoke to one couple who said after 3 yrs on a ship they bought their house in full....it takes a uk resident approx 25 yrs or more to do that .so whos poor ? Makes you wonder !!! So if you want to tip then tip if not dont...but dont tell me what i should or shouldnt do....:-) Sent from my GT-I9300 using Forums mobile app No one ever tips me either......but I am not a waiter, taxi driver, hairdresser or barman. There are few jobs that are based on tipping. Are you one of those? That might explain why nobody tips you. If you and your partner were prepared to work abroad in say Dubai or some other bull economy for 3 years you would probably make a big dint in your mortgage. In any event, chosing not to tip is your prerogative. But it eventually puts the prices up for those who do. Plus by not tipping you are breaking the spirit of the cruise contract. While not an express clause it is certainly Implied that you will tip. Enjoy your cruise whatever happens. But it's really mean to stiff the waiters and cabin attendants who serve you during your cruise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MisterBill99 Posted July 12, 2013 #560 Share Posted July 12, 2013 No one ever tips me at work....plus you will find all those on the ships earn very generous amounts compared to their economies Yes, based on receiving their menial salary plus tips! If no one tipped them, they wouldn't be able to afford that house you mentioned. And how many hours a week do you work compared to these folks on the cruise? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keel Haul Posted July 12, 2013 #561 Share Posted July 12, 2013 No one ever tips me at work...probably because of all the non refundable cruet deposits you get in Scottish weeks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Verystormy Posted July 12, 2013 #562 Share Posted July 12, 2013 Yes, based on receiving their menial salary plus tips! If no one tipped them, they wouldn't be able to afford that house you mentioned. And how many hours a week do you work compared to these folks on the cruise? But the only reason they are on a menial salary is because the company get away with it. I personally will not tip, even for good service - i have paid for good service. If, someone went beyond the call of duty or did something particularly special, then yes. But not for doing their job. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
galavant3 Posted July 12, 2013 #563 Share Posted July 12, 2013 But the only reason they are on a menial salary is because the company get away with it. I personally will not tip, even for good service - i have paid for good service. If, someone went beyond the call of duty or did something particularly special, then yes. But not for doing their job. I disagree. You really haven't paid for good service. Even though you disagree with the concept, tips (really service charges) are part of the cost of cruising. It is made clear by the cruise line and expected by the worker. Making a point really only hurts the worker. You are not sending a message to the cruise line. I would not be able to enjoy my vacation knowing that the people waiting on me hand and foot were expecting a gratuity at the end of the week and I had no intention of extending one. Some cruise lines are moving away from gratuities and including them in the cost of the cruise. Those lines are considerably more expensive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
storm1of4 Posted July 12, 2013 #564 Share Posted July 12, 2013 (edited) No one ever tips me either......but I am not a waiter, taxi driver, hairdresser or barman. There are few jobs that are based on tipping. Are you one of those? That might explain why nobody tips you. If you and your partner were prepared to work abroad in say Dubai or some other bull economy for 3 years you would probably make a big dint in your mortgage. In any event, chosing not to tip is your prerogative. But it eventually puts the prices up for those who do. Plus by not tipping you are breaking the spirit of the cruise contract. While not an express clause it is certainly Implied that you will tip. Enjoy your cruise whatever happens. But it's really mean to stiff the waiters and cabin attendants who serve you during your cruise. YES Yes I agree good response! Edited July 12, 2013 by storm1of4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
storm1of4 Posted July 12, 2013 #565 Share Posted July 12, 2013 Counting other people's money is silly. Making judgment about their job in relation to their (perceived) income is foolish and petty. I think RCi should have two fares... (1) for people who agree to pay the gratuity or (2) People who think it should be built into the fare, or otherwise for what ever reason do not agree with the Western culture of tipping, these people pay a different fare. A price that has the service already built into the price of the ticket. Then they will have no issues, or reasons to bother themselves with the income of anybodies' but their own. Yes our gratuities do pay a major portion of the server's wages. The price of cruising is lower in part because of this. To accept the lower price of the ticket, knowing it includes the understanding that you'll also tip the suggested amount only to purposely not tip or tip (what you feel is fair) amounts to dishonesty. Of course you will not pay the higher fare just to avoid tipping............So atleast at the beginning of your vacation tell the server you don't tip. They'll still do their job. But they too can decide whether they want to perform any discretionary tasks while serving you and your loved ones. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
galavant3 Posted July 12, 2013 #566 Share Posted July 12, 2013 Counting other people's money is silly. Making judgment about their job in relation to their (perceived) income is foolish and petty. I think RCi should have two fares... (1) for people who agree to pay the gratuity or (2) People who think it should be built into the fare, or otherwise for what ever reason do not agree with the Western culture of tipping, these people pay a different fare. A price that has the service already built into the price of the ticket. Then they will have no issues, or reasons to bother themselves with the income of anybodies' but their own. Yes our gratuities do pay a major portion of the server's wages. The price of cruising is lower in part because of this. To accept the lower price of the ticket, knowing it includes the understanding that you'll also tip the suggested amount only to purposely not tip or tip (what you feel is fair) amounts to dishonesty. Of course you will not pay the higher fare just to avoid tipping............So atleast at the beginning of your vacation tell the server you don't tip. They'll still do their job. But they too can decide whether they want to perform any discretionary tasks while serving you and your loved ones. Very well said. I so agree with the last paragraph. If you plan not to tip, at least have the courtesy to inform your cabin attendant and servers. It is only fair. They will still serve you well but at least they won't have the disappointment of not receiving a tip at the week's end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
04cruises Posted July 12, 2013 #567 Share Posted July 12, 2013 I find myself not tipping extra for good service on the ships anymore.I pay the pre-paid tips and therefore I am done with tipping before I get on board.I figure that if I get so-so service in one area and great service in another that it will wash out in the "pool". We will eat at a specialty restaurant and no longer tip extra as we still are paying the wait staff in the dining room. I may be wrong but that's how the new system has changed me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeachChik Posted July 12, 2013 #568 Share Posted July 12, 2013 But the only reason they are on a menial salary is because the company get away with it. I personally will not tip, even for good service - i have paid for good service. If, someone went beyond the call of duty or did something particularly special, then yes. But not for doing their job. And this is why servers hate waiting on people from outside the US. It always amazes me that people will spend thousands of dollars to go on a vacation and then refuse to pay $80 per person for the tips. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joe6666 Posted July 12, 2013 #569 Share Posted July 12, 2013 I'm so pissed about these mini bar overcharges that I will stop gratuities to the Cabin Steward if I catch them doing it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phlybice Posted July 12, 2013 #570 Share Posted July 12, 2013 My buddy is on the AOS at the moment and has a friend in GS. On the current AOS sailing at 11.59pm last night (9 days into the 12 day cruise) 124 people (not staterooms) had asked for all gratuities to be removed from their Seapass accounts. His friend at GS said they also expect more people to request this tommorrow (the last day before disembarkation) as people tend to do it last minute as they assume their stateroom attendant/waiter/asst waiter won't find out (that's shocking and dishonest !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - that makes my blood boil :mad:) Interestingly she did say that despite this happening with sometimes up to 400 passengers per cruise, there are now a lot more gratuities being paid than under the old system. Many more people would not pre-pay gratuities and then not pay anything in cash while on the cruise under the old way of administering gratuities. She said the worst cruises for this used to be the 6 day Caribbean sailings. WOW ! :eek: The only tip I ever worry about is my own, and that's between me and my staff, and the service I receive from them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boo214 Posted July 12, 2013 #571 Share Posted July 12, 2013 I'm so pissed about these mini bar overcharges that I will stop gratuities to the Cabin Steward if I catch them doing it. what does the cabin steward have to do with mini bar overcharges? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doug R. Posted July 12, 2013 #572 Share Posted July 12, 2013 what does the cabin steward have to do with mini bar overcharges? Satire is a genre of literature, and sometimes graphic and performing arts, in which vices, follies, abuses, and shortcomings are held up to ridicule, ideally with the intent of shaming individuals, and society itself, into improvement.[1] Although satire is usually meant to be funny, its greater purpose is often constructive social criticism, using wit as a weapon. Now go reread the comment. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyloonscruiser62 Posted July 12, 2013 #573 Share Posted July 12, 2013 I have always do prepayment of the tips anyway. One less thing I have to worry about. I usually end up tipping my room steward and wait staff extra. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keel Haul Posted July 12, 2013 #574 Share Posted July 12, 2013 And this is why servers hate waiting on people from outside the US. It always amazes me that people will spend thousands of dollars to go on a vacation and then refuse to pay $80 per person for the tips. My wife started her 10 yrs of service as assistant Maitre d with Celebrity in the Caribbean, have a guess who my wife crew disliked. I will give you a clue they liked those pax that new what please and thank you meant even if they were down on the tips.It amuses me that a certain type of chicken thinks they can buy another's respect with a large tip. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doug R. Posted July 12, 2013 #575 Share Posted July 12, 2013 But the only reason they are on a menial salary is because the company get away with it. I personally will not tip, even for good service - i have paid for good service. If, someone went beyond the call of duty or did something particularly special, then yes. But not for doing their job. This is either a bad case of cultural myopia or self-justification for being cheap and mean. Please compare prices in your "No Gratuity" utopia and the USA and get back to me. :mad: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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