leisuretraveler223 Posted July 1, 2016 #26 Share Posted July 1, 2016 I am of the inclination that any "gift" other than cash is really more self-serving than generous. It's people trying to believe that they are somehow more "special" or memorable than everyone else for whom that particular steward is or has worked for. Cash, cash, and cash. No ifs, and, or buts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsKC08 Posted July 1, 2016 #27 Share Posted July 1, 2016 In addition to a tip, do you ever bring anything from home to give your room steward? Thank you We actually do this from time to time, but it is normally snack type of stuff. Think about it, they live in small quarters and share their cabins with others, however it is nice for them to have special treats that they normally can't get on board, especially when they have to pay for them. We bring local treats, like GooGoo Clusters (we live in Nashville, TN), and girl scout cookies (if its that season) and things like that! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sequim88 Posted July 1, 2016 #28 Share Posted July 1, 2016 We just do extra cash in an envelope (old school tipping) in addition to the automatic tips. $10 or $20 above and beyond. We had one beverage server who was super attentive in the MDR and brought our requisite Manhattans automatically every night and had our drinks ready in the theater too. She was thrilled with the extra tip (we tipped on drinks at time of service) on the last night but she earned it. The one time we did something in addition to extra cash was a small porcelain pin one of our M&M people designed and ordered for anyone wanting memento pins for out TA to Rome. Had all the ports around the outer edge, the sailing date and a picture of the Mariner OTS in the center. We bought some extra and gave one to our cabin steward. Someday he can look back at his seafaring days and remember the ship and some places he was at. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueCollarCruiser Posted July 1, 2016 #29 Share Posted July 1, 2016 They love those $100 bills that unfold into a religious pamphlet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkrickles1 Posted July 1, 2016 #30 Share Posted July 1, 2016 Cash is king!! In addition to auto gratuities I give the cabin steward $30 the first time I see him or her and provide any special instructions with it, such as extra towels, ice, removal of items from mini fridge. Maybe it's because I'm a little twisted, but I think there's a potty joke that fits this thread. It's probably just me though.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desert Cruizers Posted July 1, 2016 #31 Share Posted July 1, 2016 We give mainly cash with one exception, we had 1 extra bag of candy from our room Crawl and left that along with our extra tip for our room steward. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marci22 Posted July 1, 2016 #32 Share Posted July 1, 2016 The one time we did something in addition to extra cash was a small porcelain pin one of our M&M people designed and ordered for anyone wanting memento pins for out TA to Rome. Had all the ports around the outer edge, the sailing date and a picture of the Mariner OTS in the center. We bought some extra and gave one to our cabin steward. Someday he can look back at his seafaring days and remember the ship and some places he was at. Nice! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marci22 Posted July 1, 2016 #33 Share Posted July 1, 2016 Have to say, one Easter cruise we had lots of candy and we were giving it out to various people who seemed to get a kick out of it. We had an odd room steward. I saw him in the hallway and offered him some candy: He looked at me like I had 3 heads, he may have even wanted to kill me! As always, ymmv! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CapeCodCruiser Posted July 1, 2016 #34 Share Posted July 1, 2016 So let me get this straight - cash? That is the answer? I think that is what folks are trying to say here - so far I have read: cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash cash Did I get it right????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
champagne123 Posted July 1, 2016 #35 Share Posted July 1, 2016 Have to say, one Easter cruise we had lots of candy and we were giving it out to various people who seemed to get a kick out of it. We had an odd room steward. I saw him in the hallway and offered him some candy: He looked at me like I had 3 heads, he may have even wanted to kill me! As always, ymmv! Now see, this is what ALL the stewards probably want to do...but they don't. They don't want to be rude for two reasons..1. Pax removing tips 2. Pax filing a complaint against them. SO, they are kind, but deep down they want to kill you. LOL....can you imagine if every pax on every cruise, gave them a candy bar/trinket? :D As said a million times, they want cash. No matter how many times a pax says "oh, but they greatly appreciated it." , well of course they acted as if they did. What else would they say or do? They don't want our junk. :D:D:D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryano Posted July 1, 2016 #36 Share Posted July 1, 2016 (edited) They don't want our junk. :D:D:D I imagine that most of the junk goes straight to the trash within 5 minutes of them receiving it :cool: It probably doesnt even make it back to their cabin :D Edited July 1, 2016 by ryano Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
makiramarlena Posted July 1, 2016 #37 Share Posted July 1, 2016 (edited) Some enjoy giving gifts for whatever reason. Personally I think cash is enough. It's hard to determine an appropriate gift for somebody you don't really know. Edited July 1, 2016 by makiramarlena Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TC1957 Posted July 1, 2016 #38 Share Posted July 1, 2016 I know, since I work for MONEY, that if my boss were to give me "gifts" instead of pay, I'd be pissed! Just give them money and be polite and that's plenty! Do you bring "gifts" for your hotel room housekeeper? Did you actually read anywhere that they wanted to give a gift INSTEAD of leaving a tip or are you just making stuff up? To the OP...most would probably prefer cash, but not always and not necessarily exclusively. You can always do what we do...if we see something we want to leave we do. If they don't want it or like it they can toss in the trash, give it away of leave it in the cabin. I make it a practice never to let someone dictate to me what I give them. What they do with it is out of my control. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
champagne123 Posted July 1, 2016 #39 Share Posted July 1, 2016 Here's an idea. If you are looking to get "rid" of your leftovers, aka....shampoo, candy, cookies, etc. etc etc....how about giving them to a child on one of the impoverished islands that we visit all the time. Now, I am sure they would greatly appreciate it and you can feel good about yourself at the same time. :eek: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marci22 Posted July 1, 2016 #40 Share Posted July 1, 2016 I once had some beer and soda left over and I told the room steward on the last day that I was leaving it. He scooped it all up right away. So there's that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havingfun2010 Posted July 1, 2016 #41 Share Posted July 1, 2016 We always give them those huge, large stuffed animals. You can find them pretty cheap in some of the ports. They seem to really like them. LOL Imagine 25 rooms, with 25 weeks contract (6months) and each room gave a gift from home. That would be 625 gifts! Guess a side business would be handy, when they are home and off their contract. Maybe even sell it back to tourist! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CapeCodCruiser Posted July 1, 2016 #42 Share Posted July 1, 2016 Did you actually read anywhere that they wanted to give a gift INSTEAD of leaving a tip or are you just making stuff up? To the OP...most would probably prefer cash, but not always and not necessarily exclusively. You can always do what we do...if we see something we want to leave we do. If they don't want it or like it they can toss in the trash, give it away of leave it in the cabin. I make it a practice never to let someone dictate to me what I give them. What they do with it is out of my control. And all these years I thought gift giving was all about the OTHER person!:rolleyes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayfo Posted July 1, 2016 #43 Share Posted July 1, 2016 I am of the inclination that any "gift" other than cash is really more self-serving than generous. It's people trying to believe that they are somehow more "special" or memorable than everyone else for whom that particular steward is or has worked for. Cash, cash, and cash. No ifs, and, or buts. BINGO! They don't want your junk, no matter how much you believe in your mind that they will love it. Cash will get you a happy and genuine response. I would like to see someone carrying one of those giant bears on board, though. That would be hilarious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayfo Posted July 1, 2016 #44 Share Posted July 1, 2016 They love those $100 bills that unfold into a religious pamphlet. I laughed out loud a little too hard at this one! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doe-c-doe Posted July 1, 2016 #45 Share Posted July 1, 2016 We leave the extra tip envelope with our extra tip enclosed and our bottle of Champagne (we always get to many sent to our room) that we never opened. We also buy a bag of M&M (with the little bags inside) and leave a mound on the bed each night. Our experience with the people that we have made friends with and kept in contact with over the years they have told us... there is limited time to get off the ship and therefore something sweet is always good. If they don't want it they can trade it for something else. This is our experience with the people that we know and msg with on a frequent basis. Your experience may be different. JMHO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penciltwister Posted July 1, 2016 #46 Share Posted July 1, 2016 Here's an idea. If you are looking to get "rid" of your leftovers, aka....shampoo, candy, cookies, etc. etc etc....how about giving them to a child on one of the impoverished islands that we visit all the time. Now, I am sure they would greatly appreciate it and you can feel good about yourself at the same time. :eek: But those people don't bring us unlimited food and drink. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
papaflamingo Posted July 2, 2016 #47 Share Posted July 2, 2016 Think of it this way. If you spend $10 on candy or a small gift, I'll bet the crew would much rather have the $10. They can send it home, spend it on shore, etc. Same with gift cards to a store. Now they have to get to the Walmart. Not easily done. As everyone says, CASH. The exception, if you have anything left over like wine or beer, tell the room steward that he can take it. Then it's up to him or her whether or not they want it. If you're leaving it anyway, they appreciate a beer or bottle of wine. But I always tell them so they know it's being left for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danp Posted July 2, 2016 #48 Share Posted July 2, 2016 When we are on a cruise where the ship goes to the same ports[Caribbean]we sometimes give the room steward a phone card and they are very happy to get that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carole2313 Posted July 2, 2016 #49 Share Posted July 2, 2016 Along with the prepaid tips we give $5US each evening at turn down time to our room steward. They are always thrilled and many of them tell me they use it to call home and talk to his/her spouse and kids. On the last day we give a little more. The only other thing we give them is if we hit St. Maarten we get a little 4 piece box of non-alcoholic Dutch chocolates. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Langley Cruisers Posted July 2, 2016 #50 Share Posted July 2, 2016 When we are on a cruise where the ship goes to the same ports[Caribbean]we sometimes give the room steward a phone card and they are very happy to get that. Yes, no offense but of course s/he is going to say thank you and act appreciative. They wouldn't want to offend you or jeopardize their tips. These days, I should think most people Skype or Facetime with loved ones rather than actually phoning. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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