jenlock21 Posted May 1, 2022 #1 Share Posted May 1, 2022 I am currently on the first part of a B2B on the Summit. There are less than 400 passengers on board and service for the most part has been amazing. This is one of the best dinning room experiences we have had….from the sommelier, our room attendant, to the server and even the bartender in the lounge and the concierge have been top notch. The problem I am having is with the retreat host aka the butler. Background: this is only our second celebrity cruise. The first was on the reflection and our host was amazing. We don’t ask for much but we didn’t have to. He brought our coffee every morning, snacks in the afternoon, found us several times during the day to tell us about events or to see if we needed anything. Before that we always sailed on the NCL haven about ten times and the butlers there were unbelievable every time. This cruise for the first half we are in a CS. We did not see our host at all day one. Day two was our anniversary and he apologized for day one and put a few balloons in our room. Aside from that we have only seen him once in the morning to bring us coffee and fruit (we fill out the room service card and he collects it and is prompt). We move to a royal suite next and I do not want him to go with us. I will leave him a great tip even though I am not happy with the service but I do not know if I’m being unreasonable, am expecting too much, or if we have just been VERY lucky on our last 11 cruises. Any thoughts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hrhdhd Posted May 1, 2022 #2 Share Posted May 1, 2022 1. Don't leave a great tip if you haven't been satisfied with the service. 2. Talk to the Retreat Concierge about your second week and see if that host is assigned to the RS. If so, comment about what the issues are. (I'm not sure what they are; unless you're asking for specific things, the host isn't a mind reader.) 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenlock21 Posted May 1, 2022 Author #3 Share Posted May 1, 2022 2 minutes ago, hrhdhd said: 1. Don't leave a great tip if you haven't been satisfied with the service. 2. Talk to the Retreat Concierge about your second week and see if that host is assigned to the RS. If so, comment about what the issues are. (I'm not sure what they are; unless you're asking for specific things, the host isn't a mind reader.) Obviously I know he is not a mind reader we just have not seen him. I guess we just aren’t used to that. Day one our bags sat outside for hours while we weren’t in the room, the concierge set up my husbands cpap, we have gotten no reminders for spa appointments or dinner reservations, the breakfast tray is propped on the side of the table and the food left in the room for hours, there have been no afternoon canapés….we are new to celebrity so I was just unsure if this was normal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare cruisestitch Posted May 1, 2022 #4 Share Posted May 1, 2022 Why give a big tip if you are dissatisfied? why have you not asked him to come to your suite to discuss this? why have you not talked to the retreat concierge about your expectations? 8 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hrhdhd Posted May 1, 2022 #5 Share Posted May 1, 2022 9 minutes ago, jenlock21 said: Obviously I know he is not a mind reader we just have not seen him. I guess we just aren’t used to that. Day one our bags sat outside for hours while we weren’t in the room, the concierge set up my husbands cpap, we have gotten no reminders for spa appointments or dinner reservations, the breakfast tray is propped on the side of the table and the food left in the room for hours, there have been no afternoon canapés….we are new to celebrity so I was just unsure if this was normal. Okay, so those are issues. I'd mention all of that to the host himself or to the Retreat Concierge. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenlock21 Posted May 1, 2022 Author #6 Share Posted May 1, 2022 7 minutes ago, cruisestitch said: Why give a big tip if you are dissatisfied? why have you not asked him to come to your suite to discuss this? why have you not talked to the retreat concierge about your expectations? Honestly because I’m southern and catholic. I was not raised to complain, I never want to get anyone in trouble, and I’ve never had an issue that warranted discussion. I suppose I should be more vocal but I do not know his number and have not seen him. I will mention it to the concierge tonight when we go in for pre dinner drinks to see if he will be there for our second half. 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinboy Posted May 1, 2022 #7 Share Posted May 1, 2022 (edited) 9 minutes ago, hrhdhd said: Okay, so those are issues. I'd mention all of that to the host himself or to the Retreat Concierge. Keep it " simple "--- Only deal with someone that can help you-- The Butler--- and, I'm sure he/her will take care of your " concerns ". No need to get other Staff members involved--- Edited May 1, 2022 by Pinboy Forgot a point 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare graphicguy Posted May 1, 2022 #8 Share Posted May 1, 2022 3 minutes ago, jenlock21 said: Honestly because I’m southern and catholic. I was not raised to complain, I never want to get anyone in trouble, and I’ve never had an issue that warranted discussion. I suppose I should be more vocal but I do not know his number and have not seen him. I will mention it to the concierge tonight when we go in for pre dinner drinks to see if he will be there for our second half. I hear that. I believe you're justified mentioning this to the Concierge. Not all are good. I've been in the Haven, too. Some excellent butlers...some, not so much. My last personal concierge on the APEX was outstanding. the one before that on the EDGE...mediocre. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FBrew Posted May 1, 2022 #9 Share Posted May 1, 2022 28 minutes ago, jenlock21 said: I am currently on the first part of a B2B on the Summit. There are less than 400 passengers on board and service for the most part has been amazing. This is one of the best dinning room experiences we have had….from the sommelier, our room attendant, to the server and even the bartender in the lounge and the concierge have been top notch. The problem I am having is with the retreat host aka the butler. Background: this is only our second celebrity cruise. The first was on the reflection and our host was amazing. We don’t ask for much but we didn’t have to. He brought our coffee every morning, snacks in the afternoon, found us several times during the day to tell us about events or to see if we needed anything. Before that we always sailed on the NCL haven about ten times and the butlers there were unbelievable every time. This cruise for the first half we are in a CS. We did not see our host at all day one. Day two was our anniversary and he apologized for day one and put a few balloons in our room. Aside from that we have only seen him once in the morning to bring us coffee and fruit (we fill out the room service card and he collects it and is prompt). We move to a royal suite next and I do not want him to go with us. I will leave him a great tip even though I am not happy with the service but I do not know if I’m being unreasonable, am expecting too much, or if we have just been VERY lucky on our last 11 cruises. Any thoughts? I would speak to the retreat concierge and tell them what has happened. I was on a back to back cruise on the Apex disembarking April 23rd. The 1st week the butler was okay. On the 2nd week Saturday morning we placed our dirty glasses on the end of the table went to the pool for the day. Came back dirty glasses weren't removed, no ice and didn't refill the diet coke. We go out for dinner come back every and everything was the same. The next morning my roommate saw the butler in hall and told him. His answer was it was turn around day. So we got no clean glasses, ice or diet coke. We didn't even get champagne. I went and saw the retreat concierge and they gave us a new butler. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare cruisestitch Posted May 1, 2022 #10 Share Posted May 1, 2022 10 minutes ago, jenlock21 said: Honestly because I’m southern and catholic. I was not raised to complain, I never want to get anyone in trouble, and I’ve never had an issue that warranted discussion. I suppose I should be more vocal but I do not know his number and have not seen him. I will mention it to the concierge tonight when we go in for pre dinner drinks to see if he will be there for our second half. We don’t have his number either! honestly, you don’t want to get him in trouble but you will come complain to us, perfect strangers, who can do nothing? I don’t get it and I don’t see what geography or religion have to do with it. 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare asnaleah Posted May 1, 2022 #11 Share Posted May 1, 2022 He should have given you a card with his contact info on day one. Definitely speak with the Retreat concierge or step it up to the Hotel director. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denny01 Posted May 1, 2022 #12 Share Posted May 1, 2022 (edited) I fully understand not wishing to get him in trouble when you haven’t asked for things that he’s not done, but I’d suggest along with the others that you inform the retreat concierge and explain you aren’t complaining but you need a more proactive butler. Describe what you had prior and go that way. not a complaint against him but a need for a butler who will do the special things without being asked. the concierge can then get what you need and help train the current one. Could be he has a Very demanding other passengers. Let the Concierge work it. It will help you And the butler. Edited May 1, 2022 by Denny01 8 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weregoingcruising Posted May 1, 2022 #13 Share Posted May 1, 2022 Follow the chain of command by starting a discussion with your butler. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenlock21 Posted May 1, 2022 Author #14 Share Posted May 1, 2022 9 minutes ago, cruisestitch said: We don’t have his number either! honestly, you don’t want to get him in trouble but you will come complain to us, perfect strangers, who can do nothing? I don’t get it and I don’t see what geography or religion have to do with it. Let me reiterate that I was not looking for judgement, only advice. I did not know if someone on here had been through a similar situation and had something helpful to do. This is new to us in all of our years of Cruising and our first cruise since Covid. I did not know if this was the new normal or not. That was all. I’m not trying to complain just to see if there was a solution that someone else had found helpful. That is the idea behind a forum. 16 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iamthesea Posted May 1, 2022 #15 Share Posted May 1, 2022 I would talk to the butler first. This way, you will give him a chance to improve without getting him in trouble. If he doesn't improve, then go higher. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Covepointcruiser Posted May 1, 2022 #16 Share Posted May 1, 2022 Your butler may have as many as 16 staterooms and not all on one deck. On one cruise we were in a RS and the butler had to apologize to is about the lack of personal service. There was an extremely needy couple, actually just the husband, who demanded the butler stand outside the Penthouse Suite in case he needed him. Often times he had to be in the suite to pour drinks including water for the couple and also had to draw water for the bath. Just have a frank discussion with your retreat host about your needs. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
islabahia Posted May 1, 2022 #17 Share Posted May 1, 2022 I certainly would have addressed these issues on Day 2 or 3 and if you couldn’t find him ask the Retreat Concierge for his number and call him. Personally I would just have a chat with the Retreat Concierge and ask him/her to remedy the problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenlock21 Posted May 1, 2022 Author #18 Share Posted May 1, 2022 4 minutes ago, islabahia said: I certainly would have addressed these issues on Day 2 or 3 and if you couldn’t find him ask the Retreat Concierge for his number and call him. Personally I would just have a chat with the Retreat Concierge and ask him/her to remedy the problem. You are right I should have talked to him or gotten his number. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinboy Posted May 1, 2022 #19 Share Posted May 1, 2022 3 minutes ago, jenlock21 said: Let me reiterate that I was not looking for judgement, only advice. Ok, so you see where this is going ? The Retreat Concierge has a " million " ( ?? ) things going on-- passengers with " issues " , reservation requests, etc. ( I would go " crazy " waiting for him/her to get back to me ). The Hotel Manager -- Good luck getting his/her attention as they are always in a meeting ( ?? ) and their answer would be--- " Sorry about the inconvenience -- I'll have XX look into it and get back to you ". ( I would go " crazy " waiting for him/her to get back to me ). However, it guarantees a plate of chocolate covered strawberries waiting in your suite when you return from dinner. Take care of it yourself. You can do it . 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjduck Posted May 1, 2022 #20 Share Posted May 1, 2022 40 minutes ago, jenlock21 said: Honestly because I’m southern and catholic. I was not raised to complain, I never want to get anyone in trouble, and I’ve never had an issue that warranted discussion. I suppose I should be more vocal but I do not know his number and have not seen him. I will mention it to the concierge tonight when we go in for pre dinner drinks to see if he will be there for our second half. Hi jenlock, I understand you completely because I used to think like you. But in the last few years, I have stopped being too nice because it doesn't get us anywhere, does it? Except unhappy. AND I am 74! Took me long enough, didn't it??? So like others have said, speak with the butler first, explaining what you would like him to do. (BTW, with the $$$ you spent for a suite, you deserve the service!) Just be your usual nice and calm self. And if his answers or attitude don't suit you, just tell him "okee, dokee" and head for the retreat concierge. Find out if he will be your butler in the RS (now THAT is a LOT of $$$, so you certainly deserve the royal suite treatment). If yes, ask for another butler. You do not sound unreasonable or demanding...just too nice. Let your feelings be known and get the service you deserve. Good luck and Aloha! 9 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bo1953 Posted May 1, 2022 #21 Share Posted May 1, 2022 1 hour ago, jenlock21 said: Obviously I know he is not a mind reader we just have not seen him. I guess we just aren’t used to that. Day one our bags sat outside for hours while we weren’t in the room, the concierge set up my husbands cpap, we have gotten no reminders for spa appointments or dinner reservations, the breakfast tray is propped on the side of the table and the food left in the room for hours, there have been no afternoon canapés….we are new to celebrity so I was just unsure if this was normal. It is my understand that this is not normal AND I recommend that you speak with the Retreat Host who will get it sorted and corrected for you immediately. There may be a reason that your Butler is not attentive, yet your issue is service which you will want to address right away. Others have been in the same position in the past and that was the course of action to take. I Am sure, from your posting(s) that you will be tactful about it and things will be handled accordingly. Do not let it go on for another day, please. Let us know how you make out. bon voyage 4 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
helen haywood Posted May 1, 2022 #22 Share Posted May 1, 2022 You say the ship is at greatly reduced capacity. Does the Retreat feel full? Just wondering. And I think the decision to talk to the Butler or take it up with the Retreat Host is an individual one. Do whichever you are more comfortable with. No, you are not experiencing the “new normal” but as others have said, some Butlers are better than others. If you are not happy with his services you certainly can make sure he is not servicing your second leg. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rare Jim_Iain Posted May 1, 2022 #23 Share Posted May 1, 2022 I have to agree with many others. You have already paid gratuities. If anyone - Butler, waiter etc just do their job and nothing more I do not feel compelled to either leave them additional gratuities or even a number 10 ratting. If however the person wither it is a Sommelier or a Butler who goes the step above I feel very comfortable leaving a good gratuity. One thing to remember is that just because you give someone a tip doesn't mean it goes to them. In many areas all tips are pooled. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purplsmurf Posted May 1, 2022 #24 Share Posted May 1, 2022 (edited) We would be in heaven! We are hoping this is the case for us on our future sailing! Edited May 1, 2022 by Purplsmurf 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DirtyDawg Posted May 1, 2022 #25 Share Posted May 1, 2022 (edited) 37 minutes ago, jenlock21 said: Let me reiterate that I was not looking for judgement, only advice. This is the internet. Judgement is EVERYWHERE! My advise would be, next time you see him tell him you are less then satisfied with the service. I'd tell him exactly why you are not satisfied and see if things improve. If you have every done an employee performance review treat it like that. "We appreciate the job you are doing being so prompt in the morning with coffee and fruit but here's where we need to see some improvement..." Good luck. Edited May 1, 2022 by DirtyDawg 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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